First of all let me say I am plus-size,beautiful,sexy, sweet women. I am just as sexual as the next person. i eat right , try to put in alittle exercise. (yatta, yatta,yatta) when it comes to sexual as a skinny person. the only thing is..when a man ask me to get on top...i get scared. Like i am going to squash them. They seem real adiment(oops) they really want me on top. but i am like NO!!!. Anywho...being a big girl i always take care of my self. You know peps think we stink,(i stay at the perfume, bath and body works, and carls daughter counter) lazy( i have been at my job for 15 years). or unattractive(i was offered to a modeling school.) but i really try to represent and show peps that we can be just as sexy. sexual, smell good and cute all at he sametime......
Its just gettting on top i freeze up. and the men actually are disappointed. what can i do to over come the fear of I AM GONNA SEND SOMEPOOR MAN TO THE HOSPITAL!!!(SIGH)
PLEASE YALL BE NICE AND DONT HURT MY FEELINGS...SMOOCHES!!View Thread
I think you are not pathetic by a long shot. I t is sooo good that you are still a virgin. your time will come . but dont rush it. I think now more and more peps are waiting to have sex. So to me its more common now for peps tobe virgins. I have met plenty of men older than you who are virgins. So dont beat your self up about it.View Thread
Yes girl I have. I pass blood clots like crazy too. I have FRIBROIDS(I THINK THATS HOW YOU SPELL IT). It can cause pain and everything.I have to go to the doctor for it. because its getting worst and worst.My cycle is so bad i am like heavy bleeding and going through pads like crazy.View Thread
Thank you. It took me along time to accept myself. I mean i eat right, walk, and other things. you see i come from a family of plus size woman. And they all think they are the bomb. And you know some peps like some dont. If you dont like it dont look at it. Yes, some men look away, and some men have to stop and take a second look.
Like Ruby(on the style network she was like 700lbs now shes lost alot of weight) she said even at her heaviest she still enjoyed her life. You most of all have too love all of you. So I just smile and carry myself very well. I dont care if you have to greese your sides to get you through the front door. love all of you and still carry yourself well and respectfully.It will carry you far.View Thread
The thing with being plus size is how you carry yourself. There are some women who are plus size who are slouchy and dont care about who they look. Then there are women like me who invest in themselves. I care about the way I look.I mean aside from the ASS AND KILLER DIMPLES I HAVE ON MY FACE. THERE IS ALSO PERSONALITY AND JUST BEING NICE. yes many women need to read these comments. THat we are not the sterotypes peps say we are.View Thread