Actually it's pretty normal. I know when I've had orgasms in the past, esp. while masturbating, the testes will tend to be drawn up to the upper part of the scrotum, sometimes leaving all together and disappearing into the body for a short time. They always come back, God bless 'em...View Thread
A relationship question more than a sex question. But when you say "going around," who is he playing this for? Is he doing it b/c he thinks it's funny (is that in line with his usual sense of humor) or is he passive aggressively trying to make you pay for something?View Thread
Two suggestions: 1) I only recently tried using a vibrating c* ring just to kind of spice things up a little. Thought it would enhance things for my wife, but she is a little too traditional to want to use. I however loved it! Definitely made things better for me. You might also try having sex in places that are unusual and slightly dangerous...backseat at park, say.View Thread
Sex is supposed to be an expression of love and affection, not just a release for your husband. If my wife ever told me that the only way she could stomach having sex with me would be to be knocked out (!), there would be no sex on that night. Or any night until we addressed the root issue, which appears to be your depression. You say your husband loves you, but I can't believe any loving husband would be a willing partner in this strategy for sex. Give him a magazine or internet connection and let him jerk off. Take care of yourself -- try to work through your depression, and be firm with him that your health and wellness is the top priority.View Thread
Was he like this before you moved in with him, or is this recent? I think couples tend to discount differences in sexual appetite, esp. since in the beginning of the relationship things are usually hot and heavy and both partners are happy with the frequency. Sooner or later, one will ramp down. It seems at first like a minor issue that a couple in love can work around, but it derails alot of relationships, unfortunately, after the walk down the aisle. I would look at this as an opportunity to see how your BF handles some firm ground rules that won't go his way. His immature approach so far is not a good sign. If in your head you are screaming "NO GO AWAY," as you say, that is also not a good sign.
IMO, no one should not be attempting to adjust their libidos artificially to meet their partners halfway. Water seeks its level and that holds for libidos. Now you have to decide whether you want to deal with that going forward (I know; easy for me to say....). Good luck!View Thread
Wow...great letter. You and your wife are an inspiration. Thank you for sharing these lessons with us. It is touching how devoted the 2 of you are to each other as you meet life's challenges together. Stay young at heart...View Thread