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Wow this brought back memories. I was a good Catholic boy and waited so long to...

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A guy's perspective: I've been with women who climaxed with intercourse and others...

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Reply: Worried about husband's sexual performance

You went to the Dr, but I think he needs to. For 2 reasons - to get himself checked...

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Hello, my wife and I are similar to you and your husband - over 40; married just...

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Hi. A couple of thoughts. When you say that he comes too soon, 1-2 minutes before ...

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Hi. A couple of thoughts. When you say that he comes too soon, 1-2 minutes before you get started, do you really mean 1-2 min after he penetrates you? If he really is coming while he's pulling back the comforter, then yes, that's abit early, but if it's once you start having sex, then that's sooner than average (the figure usually used in this room is about 3-5 minutes), but not terribly early. But certainly there are things you can do to prolong sex.

One thing that strikes me about your post is that you appear to feel that this might be attack on you, or some reflection on how he feels about you. I can tell you that when your BF says it only happens with you, he is paying you a compliment. Male orgasms are mostly all in the head, and if he is coming that soon, he's either really turned on by you, or the way he feels when he sinks into you is mindblowing to him. In my experience, I could last much longer with some GFs than others, but the sex was much more exciting with the GFs I was more attracted to, or who I "fit" better with. When he says he can't control it, he can't. There's no way in the world he's bored. But...

...nothing will kill sexual desire quicker than anxiety and suspicion (of each other's motives). If you both really are stressing over this, you will be nipping your sexual life with each other in the bud, before it has a chance to blossom. Sex is a blast! It's supposed to be fun, but you have approach it from a standpoint of adventure and trust, using communication. There's no need to feel depressed over this -- you just have to readjust your expectations, and relax! One thing I would do is make sure you have plenty of time set aside the next time you have sex. And don't even think about intercourse for the 1st 30 minutes or so. Just spend time enjoying each others bodies, engaging in mutual masturbation and oral. Make him cum and then only have sex when he's able to get erect again. He should be much slower on the draw this time.

One last thought -- the whole idea of coming together is quaint but sort of like Camelot in my experience....it just doesn't happen that often. Instead of making that the goal, lower the standard for great lovemaking to ensuring that both partners feel loved and cared for. That should help banish the anxiety and suspicion from your bedroom. Hey report back, OK? Good luck!View Thread

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