I think that since you're asking for advice on a website instead of listening to your friends and family, then you know what you should do. He's proven that he's not trustworthy. If he lies about just talking on the phone, he's going to lie about meeting her in person. My best friend tried for 4 years to make a relationship work with a man who lied about talking on the phone and texting his ex. At the end of 4 years, someone told her he'd been sleeping with her. While breaking off the engagement will be incredibly painful now, think about how bad it will hurt to stay with a liar, have children with him, and then find out he's sleeping with another woman. If he can't treat you the way you deserve to be treated (with respect and honor) then he has absolutely no business being your partner, husband, children's father, or friend.View Thread