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Reply: Sex drive faded, faded, and is now basically gone,...

Yeah, at the very least you could switch your birth control. There was one kind I took...

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Reply: Sex drive faded, faded, and is now basically gone,...

Why have you been on the same birth control for 15 years? And how can you just skate over...

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Reply: Is he still interested?

I never meant to imply you were a "naive little girl". I was just showing sympathy because...

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Reply: Is he still interested?

You're not being paranoid, he's being disrespectful. He used you and probably enjoyed the...

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Reply: Sex Drive

While I understand your hesitation to talk with the doctor, you're at a point where you...

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Reply: Sex Drive

This is the appropriate place to ask! Have you been on birth control? I know when I was...

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Reply: Orgasm too Intense

Are you somewhere where you are able to really let go and scream? I know if I have to keep...

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Reply: "Blumpkin"

First thought is that if you're about to do something that makes you question whether or...

Posted by tmlmtlrl

First thought is that if you're about to do something that makes you question whether or not God or your father would frown upon it, the most likely answer is yes.

Second, is that you've been with him for 3 months. Given that information and what he's asking of you I can conclude that you two have a purely sexual relationship, and he is using you to perform acts that he wouldn't ask of someone he cared about or that he saw a future with.

If you agree with a solely sexually based relationship and are experimenting just remember YOU are the one that has to live with the things you do. Not anyone else. And you can count on other people finding out about this happening.

As far as safety, my thought is that when scientists have tested bathroom surfaces they always find feces on countertops and the such supposedly from the toilet being flushed. That coupled with the relationship between smell and taste, it's not a place I would want to be in.

You definitely don't want a bad experience to haunt you and forever relate blowjobs to poop.

Something to remember: when you're in a relationship with someone that you're going to be with for the rest of your life it's ok to wait on certain sexual fantasies. If you have your whole life together ahead of you you might want to keep some fresh ideas in the bag. or not.

I just don't believe AT ALL that a man that respects and cares for you would ask such a thing from you. It seems like he's trying to see what all he can get you to do. And if it was a true deep down fantasy that he wanted from someone he loved and trusted then it would most likely not come to light at 3 months into the relationship. He would more likely be scared to ask this of someone he really cared for.

I guess what I'm getting at in this ramble is if you believe he'll love you for doing this for him, you should leave the relationship! If you're doing it because you have exciting sexual chemistry and are doing all the taboo fun things you can think of, no biggie... just remember YOU have to live with whatever YOU do.View Thread

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Reply: my sex drive is higher then my boyfriends and its ...

Well I see I struck a nerve here.. My advice for her to leave him was not based "solely...

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Reply: Why Is It

I think there's a few things at play here. First I've been told the difference is that,...

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