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Please post your question as a separate post, since the original post you're replying to was about problems the poster was having about their periods. I didn't have any feeling when having sex either for a long time, but there can be so many reasons for this that I think others on this site that are more knowledgeable could help you -- especially with a fresh post. Hoping you get some good information.View Thread






Sex was never good when I was married -- I had a lot of pain and my ex could only go about 20 seconds and that was it. He was never into foreplay, and he would rather watch television until he fell asleep, then wake me up in the middle of the night trying to have sex with me when I wasn't even aroused. I think that's why I eventually developed vaginismus -- I was never satisfied and was resentful of him not even caring. He also didn't want children, so he did everything he could to avoid pregnancy. He always wore a condom and prematurely ejaculated outside of me (just in case the condom broke), leaving me high and dry. One of these days, I hope to find a man who has a normal sex drive, and who is willing to put a little effort into pleasing me as well as himself.
Thanks again for the encouragement -- it gives me hope!View Thread
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