Yes that could be the reason Stacy why he would be with a partner like that for 4 years is another question!! it doesnt sound like a relationship thats very mutual sexually, in which turn hes doing the same thing with you being one-sided, and not giving you what you need, or desire either way if its this previous ex (4year relationship) your tlaking about or someone else its a real issue, and in your circumstances its a very negative impact on you, and your sexual needs Id definitely talk to him about a sex therapist if you really want to stay with this guy the rest of your life, or for any amount of time your needs need to be met, as well as his for that matter, however if hes not willing to go to counceling I'd seriously consider someone else sorry to say View Thread
inaddition on my reply I reviously posted or you can be with him, and find a partner also who will give you oral, but I would think you'd want a monogamus relationship, so in all that may not be an option you'd care to take it is ashame some guys just wont tell the truth about this topic in their relationships even if their deeply in love with their partners, but some guys wont and with every relationship their actually hoping that their partner doesn't care to want to have given to them oral sex I do believe definitely hes had some bad expieriences with it and thats why you guys are in the situation your in.. Hope you can live with this, or get in resolved in some way perhaps you guys should look into sex therapy BEFORE you get married its definitely a situation that absoultely needs resolving before you spend the rest of you life with this guy, whatever you do though dont overlook this and think somehow a mairicle will happen and he'll just give in because he won't it needs to be clinically worked out he needs to talk to someone who sorry to say wont jusge him and not have a need but will just listen he needs to feel safe to open up and be truthful, and the only way is with a therapist where its just him and the doctor.. good luck!!View Thread
everyone is so far off in their replies bottomline is your fiancee/bf partner does not like giving oral sex at all, and he's lying to you pure and simple stating that he enjoys giving and has no problems with it nothing is wrong with his testosterone or he would be declining intercourse, and any other sexual act I strongly believe he's hiding something thats happened from his past a bad expierience with giving oral sex with a past partner but he does not what to equate that to you because he doesn't want the baggage of the past to creep up into his relationship with you now..furthermore he doesn't want you to be turned off to the face he doesnt like giving oral, bercause he knows how much your enjoy it!! so he feels up agianst a wall and not knowing what to do because he doesnt want to lose you but hopes in time You'll just forget about that desire that your want from him thats why he puts so much emphsis on the actual act of intercourse hoping it will outweigh your liking toward him giving you oral some guys definitely lie about this kind of thing because one thing you dont do with a woman is take away what she enjoys, instead his thinking is you go to something else sexual and hopefully eventually it wont matter as much hope I helped you understand better because some mem will lie stright to their partner about this topic btw if you confront him about it hell just tell you the same thing he does now perhaps he doesnt like your chemistry there also, but is too afraid to tell you that even though you have allready confronted him about it and he says its fine he has no problem with you and your hygeine there..just a lil food for thought either way theirs nothing really you can do about it accept hell never give you oral sex because he just wont, or move on and find someone else as sad as that sounds View Thread
Doesnt bother me everyone has sex somewhere as long as they arent keeping me up I couldnt care less just wear ear plugs if your really that bothered by it, I wouldn't be confronting your bext door neighbor about it that would just be too awkward, and put you in a situation like your a snoop or peeping Tom/Jane or something, perhaps for a better term ease dropper..lol well anyway I wouldnt make that big of a deal out of it I know personally I wouldn't in fact I think its kind of hot View Thread
listen if you don't like what I have to say really easy don't respond I never asked for anyone to respond in fact I never wanted anyone to and never will on this site this website is suppose to be about support, if knocking some guy and his feelings about a certain topic makes your happy and gets you jollies so be it but I dont want that guy to be me!! if you have nothing nice to say to me please refrain from saying it at all I dint need this drama like I will say again this site needs a buffer between the topic which I'd be glad to help by exclusively giving my advice on just that I DO NOT WANT personal replies back that have anything to do with me or what I have to say advice wise if the first peson who replied to me never replied in the first place I would have left here being felt respected AGAIN TI SHOULD BE AN OPTION OF THIS SITE FOR A PERSON TO RECEIVE REPLIES, OR NOT RECEIVE THEM AS PART OF THEPRIVACY SETTINGS doesnt mean that person isnt trying to be involved because their still giving the advice I dont want to be judged on what I have to say just the same as you dont want to be judged on what you have to say thats why its advice!! so Gail please understand my personal wants degrading me telling me "folks have no idea what I'm talking about" well Gail I've explained it loud and clear with this response..leave me out of al conversations and replies pure and simple. thank you!!View Thread
Oh thank you so much now you've finally got what I wanted to begin with no one replying about my posts I never wanted anyone to reply to what I had said gosh you dont have to be so mean I understand the Earth doesnt revolve around me I'm very well aware of that I did address the post because that is my option I wanted People who replied to my comment I was displeasured with that I dont want anyone replying to anything I have to say I give advice take it or leave it if you like it fine if you dont so be it but either way I NEVER WANT TO HEAR FROM ANYONE if you read my last reply you would have gotten the hint I only replied 2 years alter in the first place because I wanted you People to know I DO NOT WANT REPLIES get it now? ok good gosh People are so against one lil soul trying to help out People its patheitc I have to go to this extremity to have you understand a simple concept View Thread
here we go again, about me again " maybe you've been with other men" are you for real so now your calling me gay see where your going here dont post anymore things about me please its disgusting View Thread
what this forum needs is a personal setting for their account that states, "This person prefers not have replies" in their account settings, its not my fault its this sites some people just want to help on the topic they dont want the situation to refer to them personally by others some people like to help as I do but I dont want the topic to refer back to me thats not right, it is my right though to see that does not happen I hope that when you read this it makes things much more clear for you all this site should give its responders that option!!!View Thread
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