Well you said that you have asked him what he likes and have tried different things to try and spice up the sex life. So your on the right track. As far as him thrusting. I am the same way if my DGF is on top or in any position for that matter, I still have to move the hips and grind away. I think it's just a natural thing for males ?
My guess is that he just doesn't like to be the one dominated, and you will have to adapt and work around it.View Thread
I find your situation admirable as far as remaining a virgin during this time of instant gratification in society, and the mentality is " if it feels good do it " Anyway , the other posters covered the issue of pleasuring yourself. So best of luck !View Thread
Better just settle for the wife there stud. Didn't you make a commitment to her in the first place ? Think you would enjoy hearing about her not being able to orgasm with her boyfriend? Food for thought.View Thread
Agree with both posters. This guy is a Loser ! It sounds as though you can barely support yourself and yet you have this moocher living off your dime, and worse yet, basically running the show. He is not accountable or respectful.
How about abstaining from sex with him for awhile ? I understand that you want to enjoy an active sex life, but just maybe if you layed low he would come to you and initiate the action ? In the meantime do you have any toys to maybe take the edge off ? Something to consider.View Thread
Another case of a deadbeat and the woman feeling guilty about NOT giving in. If he was so great you should not have to be concerned about him cheating as you should be able to trust him. Like the previous poster stated he needs to obtain employment and just maybe quit thinking of himself, and his pleasures.View Thread
Well nothing to be concerned about at all. When I was 20 the mood struck often, and if I didn't have a partner I would have to please myself. Now at 47 the mood still strikes but less frequently. Enjoy the moments !View Thread
Well if you enjoy watching it thats all fine and dandy but perhaps if your wife found out about this she may not be as understanding ? I'm not judging you cause I have to admit I watch a little of the naughty stuff sometimes as well, but I'm not married either. Maybe if you went over to the mens sexual issues board you'll find someone there who knows more about this obsession ? I post there sometimes and it's pretty informative Mr_Jo.View Thread
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