I agree with all of the postings that have recommended that you talk openly with your wife about this issue. You might discover a completely surprising reason that she doesn't enjoy giving oral sex, and then you two can have an open discussion about any possible resolutions to the issue. If necessary, there are sex therapists that can deal with couples who are unhappy with their sex lives. Sometimes this can bridge the communication gap and educate both partners about how to improve their sex lives together. Best of luck to you both!View Thread