Hi I think your just going to have to give it time, you have to remember all us guys, lets just how are normal and had a normal upbringing with loose foreskins with our gland showing and being rubbed daily in our cloths, so for me at 67 I could rub mine with sandpaper? nothing.
So yours is just been out for 3 weeks, you have a long way to go yet, if its getting that bad, just try wearing a thick condom, this would act like a sheaf giving protection.
See how it goes, just leaving it free at the times your home.
Hi Vale, See what you have done all because your a bit afraid of talking dirty, as they would say.
Yes be positive, get on www.dodsonandross.com or there its like all the sex questions you would like to ask, search around and you will find all the answers you need and more, if you cant find them then there's lots of links you can search, most are within each section as you read through.
But from all this you should be able to understand your own body, far better when it comes to sex and your own feelings.
Hi All this time you was masturbating was you using a tight grip? Was you by any chance doing it to porn? And was this more than once a day? With out Viagra cut you get good erections? OK if it was all the first 3 then you need to do an 8 week break, what's happened is you have now shut down you sexual receptors. Its a thing lots of guys get, so now you have to tell your new wife what you have been doing, if you want to be straight with her, because you will now need her support in this, the reason behind this if 8 weeks dose not work you just may have to double it, if you go over to www.pegym.com ED forum, your find lots of guys who have never recovered form porn, it is a big problem. If at this moment your not getting nocturnal erections and morning woods, if during this 8 weeks these do start to come back, it dose mean your back on the mend. Please keep in touch Hope this helps you Good LuckView Thread
Hi Jaybird, Well the best thing you can do is get naked with a women get relaxed and enjoy her body and see what comes of this, if need be try spending a whole evening and night with her.
But just keep naked don't let things worry you, try having a very understanding women, and one who wants to help you over your block, get pass this a few times, the once wont do, and then keep at it, the more you can do it the better.
As your masturbating try some edging, its s simple exercise that will improve you erections and the time you can have sex, when you get there.
One more thing keep your masturbating to a heather light touch and not a hard grip, its the vagina its soft and delicate, so you need top replicate that feeling, so masturbate with the feather light touch and add in some baby oil.
Hi, Your first problem is even at your age is overcoming the mind block you have and to start enjoying your body.
For this you do need some help, and lots of help you will find at WWW.dodsonandross.com let Dr Betty Dodson help with the art of self masturbation, betty is the queen of masturbation and runs open class's on it, she is also the guru of orgasm, and this she also runs class's on, there is lots of info one site to both you can down load vids on both for a small charge, and there is lots of stuff on your tube that's all free.
I think when you understand your own body and its feeling, it will be then that your start enjoying sex, try and find a man who will help you in your quest for sexual satisfaction.
Age dose not matter as you find by reading what DR Betty Dodson has to say.
You can always post to DR Betty and she will reply, you will see she is a fun person
Hi The last part, is down to binge drinking, its kind of got to epidemic proportions at weekends, in big cities, hence young women and older women are just having drunken sex with anyone, so the nip in for the morning after pill, saves a later problem.
Same goes for some of them when on holidays abroad, they just go out binge drinking and do the same, there's a couple of holiday islands out here in Greece, the chemists do a good trade in morning after pills.
Hi Well it seems that your wife has given you a lot of pain instead of love, seems now your just a miss-match of a couple, who are not having a sex life. For some couples a good sex life is so important its so great for bonding. All; you can do is see if she gets any better with therapy if not then it could be time to have that affaire. And take your life from there. Good LuckView Thread