Hi When home, if the arousal was that strong in work, then going through it all again should give you back the same arousal, to get you through masturbation and on to full orgasm. This should work time and time again your just reusing your thoughts of what has happened. I don't think you going deep enough into your thoughts, to reach arousal your looking for, your missing something. Just get naked, lay down relax, when your relaxed then start going through what aroused you at work why you slowly arouse your self through masturbation of your clitoris well oiled, but stay relaxed all the time. See how you get on with that.
Hi These ar just some thoughts of your problems. Cloudy urine could point to a UTI or a kidney infection. For your rash you could try some simple apple cider vinegar, but watch out for the ouch, needs to be done around 3 times a day. If with this white discharge you getting a fishy smell it could be just BV (bacterial vaginosis) If so try these, if your fed up with antibiotics. http://www.myhomeremedies.com/topic.cgi?topicid=2716
HI You need a very good phychiatrist, who can put you under hypnosis, and look into the dark corners of your brain to see what your hiding from? and may able to implant something to reverse your problem? Good Luck
Hi If hubby is on the larger size in length that is, like over 8 to 9 inch's I get him a ring you can buy these to stop deep penetration or get so very dense foam and make one, see how that goes for a while. If your still getting bleeding could be from a tear inside your vagina, if so try some sea salt baths and let this get inside your vagina, sea salt is very good at cleaning tears and will aid the healing. its just a couple of handfuls in the bath, just google sea salt and the vagina for more info. Do hope this help you. Good Luck
Hi Sounds like his libido is low, the DHEA and the Tribulus these can be taken together as they run along the same lines, one just boasts the other up, but do googel them DHEA can have the odd funny side effect with the odd person, but I'm on both and have been for over 3 years. put this together with the others could give him the kick he needs. Good Luck
Then there is a herb called Tribulus this could help raise his testosterone, libido and energy levels, but takes 8 weeks to get to full power.
Now as you have not put your ages, if he's over 40 then he could also try DHEA, this and Tribulus work along the same lines, but you would need to watch him, it can have the odd funny side effect with the odd person, I've been on both for over 3 years still OK.
But do check up on them first would not like to kid you.
Hi As long as its a butt plug, but you really need to careful if its just an regular vibrator? sometimes they can get sucked in, then its off to the ER with it buzzing all the way, but don't worry they have seen it all before, they have a name for it, but it slipped my mind. But have some butt fun, no harm in it, just keep it clean, read on www.dodsonandross.com the part on anal sex, left hand side.