Hi Doing some research found you this below, from this site, http://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases_conditions/hic_An_Overview_of_Sexual_Dysfunction/hic_Sexual_Dysfunction_in_Females How do hormones affect sexual function? Hormones play an important role in regulating sexual function in women. With the decrease in the hormone estrogen that is related to aging and menopause, many women experience some changes in sexual function as they age. Poor vaginal lubrication and decreased genital sensation are problems associated with changes in estrogen levels. Further, research suggests that low levels of the hormone testosterone also contribute to a decline in sexual arousal, genital sensation and orgasm. Researchers still are investigating the benefits of hormones and other medications, including sildenafil (Viagra), to treat sexual dysfunction in women
So as you can see they say about age, a simple hormonal problem can happen at any age.
When your trying to enter her are you using lots of lubrication? as this would really help as your both past using condoms you could think of using oils, this way you do get more slip, if you know what I mean, so this link may help as well. http://dodsonandross.com/topic/lubricants-vaginal-secretions Lots more good reading.
Your find that the whole site of dodsonandross is good, its like all the sexual questions you have been afraid to ask, well you should find most of the answers there.
Hi Its all down to choices, if you really want a good sexual relationship, and it sounds like you do, regular sex is a good for a loving relationship its good for bonding, and will keep a loving relationship going, you really should be on one or twice a week or more after 3 years.
So your choice do you stay or walk? it your choice.
You have put this question to her sounds like so many times, but she just plays the old record again.
Hi you have not said but are you dry, do you think you could use some extra lubrication?
It could even be your BC hormones throwing things out of whack, so it could be a hormone based problem? A hormone problem would keep you dry.
But you keep taken antibiotics is not a good thing, other wise when your body needs antibiotics they may not work. Just hope you have been taken your acidophilus, gets some of the good bugs working for you.
Hi One of my favourite sites is www.dodsonandross.com its like all the sex questions you are afraid to ask, your find all the answers here all in one place, and some more things as you go through your find lots of links, to all kind of things.
Got any more problems just post to Dr Betty Dodson, she has a great mind, she will not put you down. her answers will be straight to the point.
Hi I think a long talk with would help, but just try being naked in front of her even going to the point of openly masturbating in front of him, to see if he gets the point, perhaps he needs turning on, and that should do it.
There's a very good site, could give you some ideas. www.dodsonandross.com try both of you reading through it together, be warned there is lots to read and lots of answers as well, try to get him to read through some of it. If you cant find a link to your problem post to Dr Betty Dodson, see if she can come with more answers, she has a great mind when it comes to being sexual.