Thank you for your response. I really don't know the answer to you question. I have no recollection of it at all. The only reason I know I masturbate is when he says something. I will definately ask him to try and keep track.
I have a couple question for you. If your wife had my problem how would you approach it, would you do the same thing my boyfriend did, and like you said would you feel that you were satisfying her if she did that?
Hopefully I can talk with him soon. Just hate to bring it up because it's embarassing.