StacyVaughn...darlin'...let's back up here a minute...WHAT BABY???? ARE YOU PREGNANT??? You said "after the baby comes...and things turn back to normal????Baby girl...things ain't normal NOW...after the baby comes...they only gt WORSE!!! Darlin'...your only 20 years old!!!! Are you kidding' me?? At 20 years old, I was swinging from the chandeliers!!! You are wayyyyyyy to young to be putting up with this nonsense....and he's only 32 years old...If he's like that now...wtf do you think he's gonna be like when he's into his 40's and 50's??? I am 57 years old...gone through menopause..and I still love sex..I am with a man 10 years younger than me...and he always initiates sex..which is perfectly fine with me..we start out "sexting"..he talks dirty on the phone...I send him pics of my body and I tell him what I want him to do to me when he gets here. Foreplay can be done 1000 different ways..not only when your laying down together...try it that way...put a note in his brief case/lunch bag and tell him that when he gets home ...in the dirtiest talk you can muster up...what you have in store for him...or text him and do the same....do it a few times a day n each time a little nastier than the one before it..shake it up a little, girl..ya got nothing to lose. If that doesn't work...my only advise to you is "don't put all your eggs in one basket"..keep your options open..If someone else comes along...do whatcha gotta do...no one has to know...settle for nothing less than the very best that life can offer you...you will find someone to make you happy..in bed..and outside of it...when you least expect it...POOF..and there he shall be...trust me...I'm older than you...I know these things LOL Good LuckView Thread
StacyVaughn...just a thought here....after reading what you wrote about how he reacts towards you sexually...please don't bget upset by my question but...here goes...could he be gay??? Most men I know would kill for someone like you in the bbedroom...mine included!!!! Again, just a thought. Good luckView Thread
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