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of cunnilingus. Since this old dog had to learn new tricks
because of my own sexual problems, i discovered that my
dear wife seems to like when she is on top of me. That is why my previous coment about the 69 position went so well.
I like to roam all over her beautiful body especially after a
bath and massage but with her taking the top i am very limited
in movement but she loves it all the same. She has even at times turned the vibrator off that we occasionally use.
My masturbation by self or along with the wife takes a lengthy
time so that is why pleasing my wife orally has become my
main focus because as men should learn, snuggling,and all the
fondling before and after the climax of each other makes the
enjoyment of love mean so much more. I have received a
couple of compliments from some of the ladies that they
wished more men were like me and i appreciate the very
kind compliment. Guys that read this will probably know that
i have written here seeking advice for my sexual problem but
i will honestly say that we all will reach our sexual peak someday but extending our love-making techniques will make
it a companionship for a lifetime. Again grateful for all the good advice and Thanks Web MD for a great service.View Thread

honestly say this group has influenced me in reaching out to
please my dear wife, whom i been together with now for the
past twenty-five years in marriage and than some. She has been the love of my life through thick and thin. This group has
given me the resourceful ideas to please her since my sexual
ways have changed from cancer. I can not Thank You All enough for your help. I have been blessed with a sweet and wonderful partner,understanding lover , and a great friend.
This group discussions are great also because about 11 months ago when i first sought advice you were there for me so i was able to learn to please the wife orally and bring back
the spark that i thought was gone. I wrote just a few hours ago before this response telling of a new experience in pleasing the wife which i have never done in that way before and it was super for her and me. So to finish up this reply i must say my wife in putting up with me has been an unforgetable influence throughout the many years and again
just this past year this discussion group has influenced me also. Forever Thankful !!! signed: Stan the Man again.View Thread

My dear wife and I just came back from celebrating our 25th
wedding anniversary up in Mackinac Island and Canada a few
days. A great time was enjoyed. A wrote this group seeking advice and received alot. Thank You!
My knowledge of pleasing my wife orally has expanded to the
point that the next 25 years will be even better.
After a beautiful jaccuzzi bath and massage my wife surprized me with the 69 position while straddling me the very
first time in performing cunnilingus on her. She seemed to love this way that i licked and loved her.
Question ? Was it the way the tongue licks downward rather than upward that is better. Thanks Again from this
old dog thats learning new tricks.View Thread

25th Wedding Anniversary coming soon this October. I might have gave
a bad impression about how I stashed some savings. Hope it wasn't.
But I am still trying to get some great ideas to celebrate with the love of my life and was asking about if anyone has checked out a place called
Serenity Springs in Indiana about 2.5 hours from Chicagoland suburb or
maybe a bit further of 6.5 hours, the upper part of Michigan, Mackinaw
Island. Any other helpful ideas would be appreciated since October is
still a bit away, giving me time to make special plans for this special
occasion with this 'Special Lady'. Thank You !View Thread

I wouldn't spend it. It was for our special occasion. It was only being done for that purpose and not a life long doing. So as for
being a red flag, I don't consider it cheating on the finances since my wife makes a lot better wage than I do. I
hope no one gets that impression. A red flag to me means a
serious situation, I was only trying to squirrel away some money for a good reason. How does one save for a surprise?
I hope I can get a responce to my original question of getting
ideas to celebrate with my funds being low.
Was I wrong in doing what I did?View Thread

help but now I seeking more help. Our 25th wedding anniversary is around the bend this October and my problem is how to celebrate it.
Was planning a romantic getaway but my stash of funds was discovered. I was saving slowly by reducing my direct deposit in our checking account by 20 - 30 dollars which led to a 1900 dollar stash.
April, I was rushed to the hospital for chest pains and my loving wife got to the checking statement and started to balance the report.
Being in the hospital, the dear wife went to the bank and got help
rebalancing the account and spent 1700 of the 1900 I was saving to get ahead of some bills. I did not tell her that the savings were for
our anniversary so my savings plan went kapoot. Any cheap ideas
in which I can celebrate? Are these Bed & Breakfast places a good
way to roll in the hay and start the next 25 years? Has anyone heard
about or visited a place called Serenity Springs in Indiana? Looks like
I have to tell the wife of my failed plan but still have 4 months to try to
stash a little cash. Thanks for any ideas !View Thread

As for the other aspects of our marriage, 25 years is an enduring time of ups and downs which have lasted and continued so because " I Love You " is said on those special occasions, whether making up or anniversaries, birthdays,or ending a phone call. A wall decoration hangs in our bedroom stating to "Remember to Kiss Goodnight ! " That says it all.View Thread

just right in performing cunnilingus and using the vibrators to
bring her to a maximum climax. She decided against the
use of the phallus but in turn try to return the oral favor upon
me. i got a bit of a rise but knowing that i could not reach my
own climax i asked her not to tire herself out. She said she
will love me forever for keeping her happy with the new ways
of satisfying her but doesn't want the phallus. She is happy
with what i have. I just don't want her to worry that she
can't return the favor and not want me to perform cunnilingus
on her as frequent as i want. As i said in the beginning,
her birthday was a great success ending with a super warm
massage with scented oil calling it a night. Thank You All
for the great advice. With almost 25 years being married
to this loving wife, i am ready to go for another 25.View Thread

discovered that i reach a peak of some what, not all the way to
completion but it felt very good.
Should i send my wife a love note on where to find the phallus,
so she might attempt a solo action upon herself to see if she
would like us to use it?
ruasbizze2 stated in a previous response that his use of a
vibrator/phallus allowed his lady to reach a climax.
Question now is a climax the same no matter how it is achieved? I have seemed to satisfy my wife into a climax by the
new ways of cunnilingus, so by using a phallus or vibrator can i expect the same happy results.
Thanks Again for all the good advice.View Thread

very well. My choice of the word failure was wrong to use
even though my sexual manhood rises to the occasion
infrequently. Even with viagra or levitra, once a month or so
was pretty much the average for waking the (little guy) up to
do a very limited performance. i knew i had to do better.
Now with the new education of cunniligus to try to satisfy my
wife more, hopefully twice a week, i don't want her to get down
when she can not return the favors through no fault of hers.
I love to lay with her and enjoy all the fore-play.
Massaging her body with oil and snuggle that warmth is great.
I just feel unsure about bringing the rubber phallus in to
replace me. Am i being unsecure or can a woman become
accustomed to it to achieve her satisfaction needs?View Thread
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