FCL , i have tried using the vibrator solo while masturbating and discovered that i reach a peak of some what, not all the way to completion but it felt very good. Should i send my wife a love note on where to find the phallus, so she might attempt a solo action upon herself to see if she would like us to use it? ruasbizze2 stated in a previous response that his use of a vibrator/phallus allowed his lady to reach a climax. Question now is a climax the same no matter how it is achieved? I have seemed to satisfy my wife into a climax by the new ways of cunnilingus, so by using a phallus or vibrator can i expect the same happy results. Thanks Again for all the good advice.View Thread
I hope i didn't give the impression that my sex life was a complete loss. My wife and i make our relationship work very well. My choice of the word failure was wrong to use even though my sexual manhood rises to the occasion infrequently. Even with viagra or levitra, once a month or so was pretty much the average for waking the (little guy) up to do a very limited performance. i knew i had to do better. Now with the new education of cunniligus to try to satisfy my wife more, hopefully twice a week, i don't want her to get down when she can not return the favors through no fault of hers. I love to lay with her and enjoy all the fore-play. Massaging her body with oil and snuggle that warmth is great. I just feel unsure about bringing the rubber phallus in to replace me. Am i being unsecure or can a woman become accustomed to it to achieve her satisfaction needs?View Thread
I am pretty much in a poor state when it comes to cumming or performing satisfactorily. That is why I initially started this discussion of pleasing my dear wife orally. She seems to enjoy my efforts very much. I think the vibrators might have given her a surprise that she wasn't expecting, so that is why i did not show her the phallus that came with the one vibrator. How does one suggest to ones wife: Honey i got us a new toy since i'm a failure in this department now. Thank You - ruasbizze2 and FCL for your advice.View Thread
Since my manhood does not stand up to par regularly and the rubber phallus that came with the one vibrator is totally much bigger than mine would or ever did get, would it be wise to use it at all upon my wife ? Your comment before about most women not really interested in a vibrator used interally, who would like a phallus that comes with a vibrator being used then?View Thread
Since the last time i wrote, everything has been going good so far. Purchased a vibrator matter a fact two, one smooth and the other with ridges. The oral education that i am experimenting upon my wife with is great. The use of the vibrators seem to please her also if only used externally along her vagina, inserting either as to replace my poor manhood does nothing. Is there a special way in using the vibrators? Should they be inserted or not? Can i do any harm, don't want to turn my wife off from the new way of pleasing her. She pleases me the best that my manhood can take since the previous bout of cancer left me less than suitable for her. But i thank God for giving her to me, Thank you again for any advice.View Thread
Happy New Year ! I started out with the usual fore-play hugs & kisses over my sweetheart. She likes it very much when i pay attention to her breasts. As i slowly nudged downward she seemed a bit surprized but allowed me to continue. After licking her honey-pot, i noticed a little tense movement. My wife at first pulled me toward her for a very short time then said that she had enough. Was i doing something wrong ? Why would she want to stop me from doing something that is suppose to be very pleasant for women ? I probably be kicked out of bed if i ever tried a vibrator on her ? I tried a slow licking up & down, then a dozen or so quick ones at the very top of the clitoris.View Thread
Need more advise !! Fore play is ok between us, hugging and kissing even a sensual massage on occasion. Should I read about cunnilingus sites with my wife ? Would I please her better with a vibrator rather than my tongue ? Sorry for all the questions, don't want to shock my wife this late in our relationship. She knows i can't get it up like i use to.View Thread
I am 59 and have had cancer issues in the past and can not perform as well as i should sexually but i would like to get creative ideas in how to please my wife orally. Sex life is not very frequent but would like to give my wife the thrills she deserves. Hope i found the right place to get this information since my manhood is not up to par, i still feel my duty to this beautiful lady who has been at my side through thick and thin going on for twenty five years. Thanks to All wishing to reply !View Thread
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