Wow, prostatitis eh? That has to suck!!! Maybe I don't understand, but why can't you enlist your wife's help in this condition? Perhaps she could masturbate you? Maybe it might even lead to more sex with her???
If you want to last longer with the wife, try some different methods like; pull out and squeeze your member till the urge to ejackulate has passed, or try a desensitizer? Maybe you could pleasure the wife with some tongue action while she gives you head? It doesn't have to be conventional sex all the time, spice it up a bit?
What? Why? You are an adult, are you not? As an adult, and your friend being one also, who cares if you are having sex that is overhear by a friend??? They would do it with you there in their house, don't you think??? Wait, is your friend a nun, or priest? That might make a difference with some, but I would still do it with them there! Everyone knows we have sex, even our children!!!
What is the big deal??? Without sex, where would we be by now? LONG DEAD as a species!!! That is where! We all have sex, unless you have taken the vow of chastity?
Now I'm curious, are you married? Do you have any kids, grand kids? Does your hubby have sex with you? Do you join in when you are having sex? Or, do you think of it in Biblical terms only? Duty towards your husband? Yes, I am very curious to hear those answers!!!
Well, which are you? The world wants to know. LOL!!!
Fantastic!!! That is what "LOVE" is all about!!! Making love pleasurable for both sides is what it is all about!!! If it is always one-sided, the one doing all the work will get tired of it, and that usually spells doom for that union?! Unless there is an intervention by a licensed specialist?
I am sooooo glad to hear you enjoy doing all of this for your lady! This is what being a husband and lover is all about!!! My ex-wife was shy in the bedroom, she had no experience before, just me. And when I got her going good, she couldn't hold it down, either. One time, I had her trying to climb up the headboard of our bed. It was when I made her squirt is when I thought I had her forever? My mistake! She thought she had to know if the grass was greener on the other side of the fence? She learned her lesson, only a man in love with you, will do what is nice for you, not just a wam-bam-thank you- ma'am!!! Yep, she learned alright!
I hate guys who hop on, get theirs, and to hell with the lady. They give us lovers a bad rap! There are some women out there that, lump all of us into the same category. Then, it is up to us single "REAL MEN", to go out and prove it to the ladies we are not all the same!!! "REAL MEN", love to please their lady's!!! Now that, is a fact!!! Is it not?
I have to agree with FCL, you need to get treated, and your new guy, too! Then, you need to contact those few others, and let them know they need to get checked, if they haven't already?
If you ask me, I would have to say it was the soon to be ex-wife who gave it to him, and then he gave it to you? Doesn't matter who did what now, tho, getting treated is all that should matter prior to having anymore sex!
Someone, or maybe two someone's lied to you!!! You should have had the new partner wear a condom, cause you have no idea where his thingy has been?
Are you 100% sure your B.F. got tested for any of these two, or any other disease? Your doctors should have given you a report, and it would be on paper, wouldn't it? I've never had so much as an U.T.I., so I don't really know how that testing works? I would be sure to get it in writing if I were you?
People will sometimes lie, to hold on to what they want, or maybe even love? So, if you wanted to be intimate with this B.F., then you both should have been tested prior to that first sexual encounter. After that, then the new partner should have worn a condom for your, and your B.F.'s protection! Don't you think???
You are very lucky to have only those disease's, like Anon475 said, it could have been Aids?
Learn from this mistake, make any new partner wear a condom till you see the paper in their hands!!! Always get tested, for your own peace of mind!!!
Your wife knows already, dude! Girls love to talk about their man when she has a good one! Your wife would have to be deaf, and blind to NOT know her friend heard you guys!
I had a couple of my wife's friends hear us, and I am not embarrassed by it. One of her friends tried to seduce me every time she came to visit. I don't know, or care about what others do in their bedrooms with their wive's, but I want to concentrate on my wife, no one else. Or a girlfriend, if that be the case? I'm not in to those threesomes or what have you. I want whoever is in my bedroom to know they are the only one I'm concentrating all of my love on. I have rarely ever thought of someone else while having sex with my wife, or any of my girlfriends. I'm a one woman man and I love it that way, and so do my ladies!
I'm glad you can pleasure your wife so well, it is what every man should do! Married man, or going steady, concentrate your love on her, and she will be happy to return that love. I would hope so, anyway?
I can't tell you any percentage's, but if you love your wife, you will concentrate your love on her, not her friend. You are thinking of another woman while making love to your wife? That is something I have trouble with? It is almost like cheating? I wonder, do you think of your wife when having an orgasm, or her friend? Is that called fantasizing, or cheating? It is a mighty fine line, if you ask me???
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