First, let me apologize to you on behalf of all of us "REAL" men out there! We take our intimacy seriously! We like to hold hands, we like to cuddle, we like to TAKE our TIME in the bedroom! Your hubby is a louse!!! He is no real man, that's for damned sure!!! He is a selfish, spoiled sounding brat?! He needs to grow up, and actually LEARN how to TREAT a lady!!! Both in bed, and out!!!
Like Sluggo said, you guys need a sex counselor!!! However, I don't see your selfish, spoiled brat hubby going?! So, perhaps you should get a B.O.B. (battery operated boyfriend) like Michelle said? Only instead of doing it beside him, do it right in front of him, so he can watch and learn!!! As you are instructing your student, tell him of the importance of intimacy, and how you need him to go slowly, and with lots of foreplay to get you hot and juicy. The more you can show, and teach him, the better?!!! If he does well the first time, then let him help the second, and be sure to guide his hand! Once he has it down, let him make love to you, but before he does, tell him you want ten minutes of foreplay, or its a no go from the start?! He can learn! As long as he has a pea for a brain, he can learn, even if it takes you a year, at least try?! Your vows demand that much!
But, your vows do not say you have to abide a pig?! Do they? Nope, I didn't think so? Now, if he still fails to support you in the intimacy department, tell him its over, you want to go out and find a real man?! You can be bluffing if you want, I don't think I would, tho? After the chitty way he has treated you, for so long now? No! He has to support you, you are HIS WIFE! He fails in so many ways to just be a man! He needs help, you are the one that has to help him, or he will always be a pig?! Become that teacher, be technical, if need be? But, above all else, make him show you intimacy all the time?!!! He should come home, take one look at you, and what a clean house you keep for him, and he should WANT to snatch you up, and carry you to the bedroom, and make mad, passionate love to you?! He should be able to come up behind you working in the kitchen, and hug you from behind, maybe cop a feel of your breasts? He should give you a kiss on the neck, and cheek, then turn you around, and kiss you good!!! THAT, is what a real man does!!! Teach him, its the only way, sorry!!!
I wish I could do more, but I cannot, it is up to you?! I wish you tons of luck, you are going to need it!!! Now, go back and read the replies again, what is the common denominator? Stevesmw has some great ideas, also! I hope some help you out?!!!
If you have tried three pregnancy tests, and all were negative, then I wouldn't worry too much, especially since your B.F. pulled out prior to ejackulation?! I can't be sure, but you could probably look it up on this site, but maybe, just maybe that pill could effect your period, some??? Worth a shot, right?
You did have some bleeding, you said so yourself, so, couldn't that have been your period??? It must have been? Try to relax, its probably a side effect of that pill?
Just be happy with what you got from your parents, and their forefathers/mothers?!!! There is no magic fix for you! Sure, people will tell you anything you want to hear, just to relieve you of your hard earned dollars, and all for naught!
I am not big by any stretch of the imagination! I'm only six and fifteen sixteenths long, but I rely on other skills, and no one even notices how long, or how wide it is! All they notice is genuine bliss!!!
Do you worry how long your fingers are? Or how long your tongue is??? No? Why not? Those same Genes and D.N.A. gave you those, too!!! Why not try and make your tongue longer, all the ladies would rather that, than have a big log shoved inside them!!! Don't believe me, just ask them right here on this site?! Or, any other site, or even in person?! Not one lady I have ever been with, wanted a log shoved in them, they would rather I had a nice long tongue!!!
You should love the body you were given, not covet that which is not! Be satisfied yourself, and your confidence will let women know that you know what you are doing in the sack!!! Confidence wins the hearts and minds of the ladies, just ask them?
I used to think I was small, but that was when I was young? After I joined the military I decided I was stuck with what the mixture of genes and D.N.A. from my parents had given me. Once I did that, I no longer even cared how long it was, only that I used it correctly to please my partner?! I had a friend that had that disease that makes your penis really tiny, Marphans I think? Anyway, he got more pussy than I ever dreamed of getting? Why? Because he was confident of his abilities to please any woman, and they picked up on that confidence!!!
It is not the size that matters, its how you use all of your skills to please your partner, that matters!!! Pleasing your partner is what sex is all about, nothing in there says size matters?! What about the size of your fingers? Or, what about the size of your tongue? You see? It only matters how you use it!!! Not the size!!!
I hope you believe me, I've been around the block a bajillion times now, and not one has been left unsatisfied! Not one complained about my size, and I am only six and fifteen sixteenths long!!!
You can't grow a bigger penis! You could have the doctor snip the tendon, but that leaves you hanging straight out, not up! Rely on other skills, and no one will even notice how big, or long you are, trust me on that!!!
You are how you are through a mixture of Genes, and D.N.A. from your parents. You can't change that!!!
Ok, this coming from a 55 year old man who had the same problem! I lost all sex drive from nerve damage. Impotence is a strong motivator for a man to clam up on!!! Trust me, I did, and it ruined my otherwise healthy marriage! I was scared, petrified! I lost the one thing in life that gave me total pleasure, and took away the one thing I had to please my wife! Or, so I thought at the time?
I finally got the courage up to see a doctor, and the V.A. in its infinite wisdom, gave me a female doctor, and of course, she was young and quite beautiful! Great, just my luck! But, she sat there, very close in front of me, almost knees touching, and she helped me to relax by telling me all of the training she has had in this field, along with many others. She spent the time to make me at ease, and so, I told her everything, she checked everything, then gave me Levitra. Gave me another appointment, and sent me on my way. I have never been so happy!!! This Levitra, for some reason, also makes me feel horny again if I see something to turn me on?! I still need manual stimulation, but boy howdy how hard I get!!! I feel like a teenager again!!! Randy as hell, and ready for action!!!
MAKE HIM see his doctor, and talk about this!!! If you must, and I hope it doesn't come to this, but, tell him you need his help, and he better fix it or else you will leave him?! Men are fixers by nature, so, if you tell him this needs fixed, hopefully he will try to fix it?! If he still refuses to work on it, go get the biggest dildo you can handle, and do yourself right in front of him! If he tries to leave, you tell him to watch, or do it himself?!!!
I hope, for your marriage's sake, he does indeed try to fix this? Good luck to you!!!
I can agree with you on that! He must be a closet masturbator? His penis skin is not sensing her soft vagina, and therefore, the trouble! I have lived alone for a very, very long time now, and I can tell you, I have masturbated using a too firm grip, and lost my ability to orgasm, or, it took forever and a day?! As embarrassing as it was, I talked to my female doctor, and she told me to ease up on my grip! It worked, but I had to wait five or six weeks for my penis skin to even feel my light pressure!!!
He needs to stop with the extra masturbation! Only allow her to do it, and he should return to normal in a few weeks?! He may even need to stop altogether, like I had to? No matter how it goes, he can, and will get back to normal! She really needs to talk to him!
You don't say how long you two have been together? So, can't comment on weather he finds you attractive or not? Masturbation alone is not it? Unless its like Steve says? Depressed? Probably not, since he has an erection every time?! It may also be as Steve says, he just enjoys the feeling too much? I've been there/done that!
Relax, until he stops having sex with you, you need not worry!