I read what other people posted. I think you guys can work it out. I have a high sex drive but my wife has fribromyalgia, talking about sexual frustration there. She make me feel like there is a problem with me. I understand your frustration because the same happens with me and I don't know how to approach her no more for intimacy. There is always an excuse and some of them I understand and sometimes I feel she is using her condition as a excuse. At this point I don't know what to do because I feel sorry for her but at the same time I can't deal with this frustration no more. You guys have a better chance to work things out than me. In your case there are always other ways for pleasure with out the intercourse. In my case I tried other things but I get a bad look or pushed away. You guys have solutions; I don't have any solution for my situation. I would like to stay marry too but sometimes I think about leaving. Is like married and almost living a life like a monk, just that they never get anything because they can't. I don't know, if you are in the mood and you have to wait days for your love one to give you a sign to have sex, is very annoying. You guys can still work out something.View Thread