PLEASE listen to these people!! Your gf has a personality disorder! You CANNOT change her! I've been married to one for 18 yrs! My life has been ruined by thinking that she was "good" beneath all of her abuse. RUN & DON'T LOOK BACK! Look up "Shrink 4 Men"........If I had only Known then what I know now.....I could have saved myself from HELL! If you stay, she will RUIN you! She sees your niceness as a weakness.......& will exploit that til she runs u over! Do NOT discount any of this.........she is "Hoovering you!View Thread