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You need to consider depression as well. I think you need to ask around and find a good therapist. Sad to say it sounds like your husband has a lot on his plate, and may find trying to help you deal with your problems too overwhelming (hence him brushing you off). See someone you're comfortable talking with, they will be able to give you a professional point of view on your mental state. Hopefully you can relieve some stress by using him/her as an outlet, and getting some insight on how to manage all you have going on right now.
And if you haven't heard of it yet, you should see if there's an therpaist in your area who do nuero feedback. I've done this off and on for years, and it really does make a difference in many ways. One of the most beneficial ways for me being the meditative relaxed state it allows you to put yourself in. Great stress reliever.View Thread


I personally have a hard time orgasming through intercourse. I enjoy what's happening but can't "get there". Now through masterbation I have NO problems getting off in just a minute or two. Having sex with a partner can be very challenging for a lot a lot of people to reach climax.
He shouldn't get pissed off (depending on how you're presenting the situation when trying to talk about it). Sex is a very personal/touching subject though- ESPECIALLY for men. My fiance gets testy when I try to talk about our sex life as well. You just need to be very sensitive when bringing it up. If he gets defensive right off the bat, keep calm and continue to be compassionate.View Thread


He wants sex so often, even when I'm not saying or hinting I want it, yet he doesn't really talk about things I stated anymore, nor does he really EVER foreplay anymore. I've kinda concluded he's just a typical lazy-selfish lover. This has been going on for more than half our relationship. This being a deal breaker has crossed my mind. I'm sure after the baby comes, and things are able to return back to normal, I'll reach a point where I can't deal with it anymore, and I'll make it fully aware. Either he's going to need to allow me to express myself sexually with a woman, he's going to have to change (which I doubt), or I need to find someone who I'm sexually compatable with. He made me believe he was a certain way (sexually) when we first got together, but than once he had me he stopped being giving. I've had three sexual partners before him, and they all sucked at sex, didn't foreplay, and NEVER went down. So I'm compleely fed up with not getting my way in the bedroom. It's something I've never had, and am not willing to never experience in my lifetime.View Thread


On another note, his comments about my weight have been brought up again, and I was actually able to speak my mind a little better. I told him any ounce of self esteem I did have, I now don't. And that I'm not sure what to think about "us" anymore. He than had read one of his friends Facebook statuses were she was taing about how she took her hubby to the playboy mansion. Even though she's pregnant and "fat" and he was surrounded by naked playboy bunnies, he still only had eyes on/for her. He said it made him feel less of a man. As it should.View Thread


It's a bummer, I know I won't be able to have sex here soon after the baby comes, and I can't enjoy it before the baby comes! Gr, frustrating.View Thread
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