I have the same issue, and have been trying to figured it out. It didn't wok for me, but you should probably take the first step by talking about it. I straight up asked my partner, in a kind way, if he doesn't like the taste, smell, or just simply doesn't like the act of it. Another way I had attempted to ask my partner about it is by asking him, "now that we've been together for awhile, what are your likes and dislikes in bed? Is there anything you've desired to still do?"View Thread
Well due to having some relationship issues, we haven't slept together in probably five or so days (which is uncommon for us. If we don't have sex before bed, we have sex in the morning).
Yesterday was a better day between us. It was his day off so I made sure to do my make up and hair nice. He always makes sexual passes, and since he had yesterday, I figured it was open game. The first time I came on to him it was just kissing. He seemed fine with it. But I made a few passes after that. He kept pushing me away though. Later that night/this morning his stomach was hurting so I didn't even try. I'm back to not wanting to try anymore though. I'm getting so frustrated cause I want to be able to feel sexy/confident, and show him that side of me, but he never let's me. I don't care if I'm "in control" really, but I want to be able to initiate sometimes. I want to turn HIM on. I ant him to allow me to kiss and touch him before sex. Seems like unless I'm putting his penis in my mouth he doesn't care though.View Thread
Well he was with a past partner for four years before me. She was one of those girls that couldn't orgasm through intercourse. So if he wanted any, he had to go down on her first, but she didn't like giving, and never would. Which I suspected could be a reason why.View Thread