i feel for you. i know what you mean about having vaginal irritation,but if youre always having extremely painful sex then maybe that needs to be explored by the right experts.i know plenty of people who went to ob-gyn's and urologists for this issue and nothing got better. why dont you google painful intercourse and see what comes up in terms of places where you can get checked out.some places will offer phone consults if you live far.good luck!View Thread
think its important that ppl know that sex desire isn't always an emotional or psychological thing but can also be a biological issue-- especially after you have kids.i had similar issue and thought it must be somthing wrong with the relationship or me and i always felt bad for never wanting it,but then i went to this place the medical center for female sexuality and they were able to rule out the issues so we knew what we were dealing with..turned out to be hormonal and it felt good to find out that it wasnt in my head.be careful-before you spend your money in sex therapy you may want to makesure its not a hormonal problem!and many obgyn's dont have the time to deal with this prob!!View Thread