Many times when I hear of someone in a relationship with a mismatched libido, especially "craving" as An_241281 posted, I generally find an innate insecurity seeking approval through sex for the one craving, and sometimes on the other side, a low self-esteem resulting in a low sex drive. This can be a vicious cycle, as one drives the other, until it is recognized and both acknowledge they need to work on their own problems. And a good therapist to help each individually talk through their problems can help. It's not a quick fix, but often a real condition. If you love each other and want to be together for life, work through it and find the answer (whether this is the answer or not); if you don't, then accept the inevitable and move on with your lives.View Thread