maybe hes one of those more intuitive types that just thinks alot and hes so gone in his head concentrating on other things that matter to him. that hes not too entirely focused to you or your issue. i would have a sitdown with him and ask if theres anything thats been bugging him or taking up his thoughts that you could help him out with, like that shoulder to lean on. that could be you for him. most the time its us women who want the man to listen and not worry about sex. idk jmo...its worth a shot. bc i feel that way with lotta daily life issues on my head that i havent been in the mood with my hubby and hes been a lion but i still just keep thinking too much and im trying not to,. but he understood last nite wen i told him.View Thread