I'm not going to look at the articles. Are there statistics about the percentage of people who watch porn, broken down by the amount of porn they watch and ED? Anything overdone will cause problems, but what is too much? I haven't watched porn for over 20 years. When I did watch it, I got the desired effect and I am still a believer in use or lose it.View Thread
My personal belief is that the idea of porn induced ED is a load of BS for most men. I'm a strong believer in use it or lose it. If you partner isn't interested in sex it doesn't mean you should be also.
If your wife really enjoyed sex and got a lot of pleasure from it, would you still be turned on by the same old same old?View Thread
You need an attitude adjustment. One of the most stimulating things for a man is his partner orgasming. Why can't you use your hand, mouth and toys on her?. That's giving. Asking her to do it is another form of using. You are very lucky to have a willing partner.View Thread
My urologist mentioned the procedure years ago. I remember it as the "Roto Rooter". I've asked and the urologist has discussed all the options and most of them have marginal success and take a long time to show any effectiveness.
If your wife likes semen, consider taking l-citrulline. First time I used it. I gushed.View Thread
I've had bph for a long time and treated my self with herbs; mainly saw palmetto. The BPH predated any erectile issues. I tried Flomax after I had developed erectile issues and it didn't make a difference one way or another. I tried it because I was tired of waking a couple times a night to urinate. The side effect for me was reduced semen output and it didn't help my bph. I quit taking it and my semen output returned to what it was before.
I also did the 30 day free trial with Cialis which is prescribed for ed and bph. I actually had a few nights where I didn't need to get up to urinate. As an ed med it worked better than Levitra which my HMO prescribed then and generic Viagra which they prescribe now. The side effect of Cialis for me was retrograde ejaculation. If daily Cialis was offered at a reasonable cost I would continue to take it. I take herbs daily which are reasonable but not as effective.View Thread
An average younger male is going to want sex as often or more than his partner. There's no substitute for a vagina and a woman who is attached that is passionate even if that man is not particularly attracted to his partner. Being available counts for a lot. Clearly, he is the one with the problem.
You said that you made love a lot earlier. Quality is more important than quantity. Were you able to orgasm? Was he able to orgasm?
Possible reasons he's not interested:
1 He's not that interested in sex and earlier was in the pleasing stage of a relationship. 2. He's bored sexually and was more interested in getting you there than a sustained sexual relationship. 3. He wants to be the initiator and you initiating is a big turnoff. 4. He feels pressured having to perform after the newness of the relationship subsided. 5. Some men think love making is work and it's easier to masturbate to some form of porn or fantasies.View Thread
You said that you could please him using other methods. Is he able to please you with other methods? If he can pleasure you and you can pleasure him, you are in good shape. If you stimulate him and stop, how long does it take for him to lose his erection? How hard is his erection? A penis can be hard enough to orgasm, but not be hard enough for intercourse. If his penis is hard and stays that way for a while without stimulation you should be able to find a comfortable position and use your hands to guide it into you. You should both relax. A man can lose his erection fumbling around trying to enter you. If he has achieved partial entry you can use your hand to stimulate him until he can be deeper inside you.View Thread