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Simultaneous orgasm through intercourse is almost a myth.
I had a girlfriend that enjoyed giving and receiving oral sex.
One day she said that it was better for her to receive when she wasn't giving at the same time. She said it allowed her to concentrate on her own orgasm. That's communication.View Thread

If she is interested in making love and you can communicate well in the bedroom, you should be able to work it out.View Thread

In a session of lovemaking my wife would have hundreds or orgasms and enjoy everyone of them. It was pure bliss and for a an hour make every lousy thing in her life go away.
She wanted me to share in her pleasure. She would frequently say "can you feel my orgasms". Lovemaking ended when every bit of stress and sexual tension was gone from her body and then we would hold each other an fall asleep.
I wish you could experience what she felt and you might have a better understanding how lovemaking is for many women.
It doesn't take hundreds but one really good one makes everything right in the world.View Thread

I still struggle with the fact that my wife is a very sexual person and frequently talks about how much she enjoyed our love making and yet......
My wife has fulfilled her end of the marriage contract and I will be married to her (although sexually frustrated) until....
If I found myself in a relationship where my wife was physically and psychologically able but unwilling to deal with my physical and emotional needs I would not stand for it.View Thread

If you can't discuss them one on one, suggest/demand couples counseling.
Regarding sex, you need to do something. Begging isn't an option. Whatever action you take has consequences. Being upset and making sure your wife knows it also isn't an option. If your wife were truly interested in your happiness, this situation wouldn't exist.
Here's my suggestion: Go the opposite direction. be extra nice, compliment her frequently and be very affectionate.
Gradually work this in so as not to set off any alarms.
Asking for sex will get shot down, groping will get shot down. But I dare a wife to get poed over being kissed and hugged by her husband.View Thread

Pleasuring yourself is quicker and easier.
My wife went through a period of time when she used a vibrator extensively when home by herself. She greatly preferred making love to me, but it was something she needed to do to reduce stress. I didn't take it personally.View Thread


It's been about that long for me to, but my wife has PTSD.
She had/has a huge sex drive, but she can only initiate sex when she's been in the mood, which was ....
Did she ever really enjoy sex? How is the rest of your relationship?
Marriage is about pleasing your spouse and she has to know that no/infrequent sex is making you unhappy.View Thread

Erections are a sign of good sexual health.
Wait until you don't have erections so easily, then you will really hear the complaints.View Thread

I am finding herbs working as well. About $40 a month.View Thread
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