Having to work a little is good. It means you can take it to the edge without worry. I hated starting out on the edge an having to do a balancing act. A man should be able to choose when he orgasms, not worrying about it. One of my favorite parts of lovemaking: After my partner said she was good, I would say make me orgasm. She had to do the work and and when I ogasmed it was good for another one for her.
If your partner likes a lot of lovemaking and you enjoy the act without an orgasm, not orgasming is a plus because you don't have to worry about a recovery period.View Thread
1. I would little respect for anyone that engages in sex during the early stages of a relationship in order to please even thought they are not revealing their sexual nature. From posts here that applies to men and women. There is one exception where there is a physical or psychological change. In my case, after about eight years of fantastic love making, my wife developed PTSD from early childhood abuse that was brought out during therapy. After that sexual activity was infrequent.
2. Sex is best when both partners are physically enjoying it. If I were a woman who didn't enjoy sex and I loved my husband, I would provide brief intercourse and manual and oral stimulation frequently and provide it in a loving matter. Love making is all about giving and there is satisfaction in that.
I have ed issues now and would love to give my wife hundreds of orgasms through manual stimulation. I've done it jn the past even before ed issues and I feel great having her experiencing pleasure.
Providing sexual relief because you feel sorry sucks, because it takes all the enjoyment out of it. Providing it as an act of love is acceptable, because your partner knows that you are giving love along with providing sex.View Thread
Take it as a compliment. A normal male will be able to orgasm any time he wants; even within minutes of beginning sexual activity. A male will take a long time for two reasons; to make sure his partner is satisfied and to enjoy the preorgamsic experience as long as possible. Most men are not multiorgasmic and when they orgasm, sexual activity ceases for some time, minutes to hours depending on age and the individual. He is likely to get his when he is ready. Your anxiety doesn't enhance the situation.View Thread
Your partner isn't excited because he is stressed. If your goal is simultaneous orgasm through intercourse you are going to be disappointed most of the time. Let him pleasure you without any expectations and he will relax. Pleasure him without any expecting anything in return.
I had PE issues and my wife liked to orgasm for about an hour and preferred intercourse and only in certain positions. You do the best you can and relax and enjoy pleasuring.View Thread
as a placebo. The strength of the ingredients is too weak and throwing the kitchen sink of every herb that is reputed to work in small doses won't get it done. 100mg of Yohimbe won't do anything. 2000mg will put lead in your pencil, but also make you think your having a heart attack.
Read the ingredients and dosage on the bottle and look up the ingredients.
I've tried horny goat weed, yohimbe, Korean ginseng, l-citrulline,l- arginine, tongat ali,Muira Puama. all in much stronger dosages than the OTC pills.
HGW definitely improves an erection without any side effects. It depends on how much help you need. 1000mg of Yohimbe is even better, if you don't mind being jittery for 4-5 hours. It raises blood pressure.View Thread
Your relationship went down the tubes. It could have ruined your sexual relationship or your sexual relationship ruined the entire relationship.
PE is something that needs to be resolved by both partners. Your partner needs to be willing to be satisfied other than by intercourse, so you can work on your ejaculatory response.
If you partner needs lubricant she should say so and it should be available. From your comments, I get the impression that sex is more about you and you aren't too interested in what is going on with her.
If the relationship was stronger and she was more open about her issues earlier you might have worked through this. Better to find out now than after being married.
Next relationship, concentrate more on your partner's pleasure and choose someone who is open and honest about her needs.View Thread
There are women who object to anything other than intercourse. They think that oral sex is unnatural. First orgasm my wife ever had was from oral sex and that went on the no go list pretty quickly.View Thread