Aging is the enemy and things can go down hill fast. Overrall health is important. Personally, I found that delaying orgasm leads to a stronger orgasm. I had one one of the best orgasms in my life at age 60.
I'm 69 now and even masturbating, my orgasms are disappointing. Over the last few years, my sensitivity as descreased along with the strength of ,my erections. I can't even use the same technique to orgasm that worked well for almost 50 years.View Thread
Passion and fireworks are optional. Spicing things up and position may not improve things. There is a large component of mechanics. He needs to learn how to give you an orgasm and if you can't guide him, some reading is in order.
If he sees you orgasming (not faking) It might get his motor running.
He's bored because you aren't responding and doesn't know what to do.View Thread
Porn is a poor substitute for reality. First porn I watched was in the late 70's (movie theaters) , 80's video tapes .and 90's the beginning of the internet. I haven't watched any for 20 years. It's fake and repetitive. When I need a good fantasy, I go to my mind. Plenty of good stuff to draw from there.
I don't think listening to a woman having a fake orgasm is the same as lying next to a real person having a real orgasm.View Thread
My wife fell and strained some thigh muscles. She was taking pain killers all day and drinking (not a good idea). We were lying in bed with her facing my back. She has PTSD and sometimes when she is totally zonked she gets very aroused. She started orgasming for about 5 minutes without any self stimulation. I was a bystander and there was now way I would be able to get involved. I have ED issues and I developed one of the strongest erections I've had in years. I hadn't taken any ed meds and the erection was much better than when I take them. I'm hoping someday are lovemaking resumes. I can only evaluate my response from chemical or physical stimuli and it is lacking, but the mind can take it to another level.View Thread
My opinion is that conversations between child and parent regarding sex are uncomfortable for both parties. For them to mean anything they would need to be very graphic.
I'm old and my parent's generation didn't know squat. The knowledge for my generation was spotty. Over the last 40 years, too many people think that porn is a good source of sex education.
Before there was porn, there was erotica. In the early 70's I subscribed to erotic book clubs. You could learn a lot. I had a beautifully photographed coffee table book of sexual positions.
There is a lot of very good information available through books and online. A young man or woman should know the possibilities for lovemaking rather than ignorant experimentation. As a parent if asked about sex, I would point my child in the right direction to become informed.View Thread