Anon_78425, I don't know if you are still on here or not but I was just curious how this worked out for you and your boyfriend. I realize it was two years ago now but I recently was searching this kind of information because I am currently going through this same situation with my boyfriend who I have been with for 2 & 1/2 yrs. When I read your article, I felt like I could have written it myself, I even made him read it to try to better explain what I am feeling and he even agreed it sounded a lot like something i could write. So I was just wondering how/if things worked out and what you did to try to work it out.View Thread