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If you don't see anything wrong with your situation that took place in Thailand then so be it. I guess most men wouldn't have issue with doing something like that in order to gain experiences. It wouldn't be for me personally though.
If you recognize that not offering sex is going to be a major deal killer, why bother going on dates then? I understand that getting a date is like a job and I barely got a job because of my social awkwardness. I talked to a few men on the dating sites but none of them were willing to take me out. I have tried to get dates in the past but men are pretty quick to reject women who are not like the others. They had rejected me for a number of things like my hobbies and even for being somewhat learning disabled! Most men seem to have a very rigid view of what women are acceptable. I think it's because There's simply too many women for them to choose from they don't have any real reason to waste time on 'freaks.' I do honestly still feel like suicide is the only option for a person like myself who doesn't belong anywhere.View Thread


I do not know how much you're allowed to share on this site, but that's up to you. I do not mind. yes I know you're trying to be helpful. I agree and I don't go to bars anymore, I do not feel comfortable in loud places like that except maybe a concert sometimes. Even though I do drink but not heavily at all. I don't go to church but yea, it's hard to meet people especially the older you get. Seem like everyone is attached or living together or something.
My interests are reading books, listening to music, and collecting antiques. I like board games but no one to play them with b/c I live alone. I don't have hobbies that involve a lot of people. I don't know what I bring into the relationship b/c I never had one, LOL. I know a lot of men are lonely -- but that doesn't mean they are going to wait for sex with a person. A lot of time I feel like it's not even worth it to try dating. I seen online dating chats where the people say if the person isn't ready in X amount of weeks -- time to move on. It was majority opinion. This is why I would like to try and just accept living alone at this point.View Thread

If it is true and the only way to is to be willing to change like you said. Then I'm not willing to just go out and sleep with men in order to get dates. I'm miserable because I don't really belong anywhere or with anyone as I am, only possible if I change. I wish I could find ways to accept living by self like this but I don't know how. TY.View Thread

unfortunately. It's unrealistic to say 'oh go find someone who likes you' as if there's tons of men willing to date a woman with my issues and very little experience. Again, sounds nice to say, but not reality.View Thread



don't you think something is wrong with a person (especially a woman) who is like this? it's certainly not normal, I looked it up and its something that is supposed to have treatments and stuff. I just wanted to experience dates very slowly (without expectation of sex) but at my age, I am too far behind.View Thread


thanks I have looked into aseuxal and sorry to say: if it is accurate and it's what I am, I don't want to be. I want to be normal like other women
Men do not want to even date a woman who is not into sex and stuff and I don't want kids -- so what is the point of life? Very depressing.View Thread
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