I am in the same position Phoenix and it is truly the most difficult thing I have ever gone through! My husband is young! I am only 30 but have been dealing with these issues for about 5 years! I had no idea when we got married that it would only get worse but when you wake up sexually frustrated after fantasizing all night.. what do you do... my husband and I go 3-4 months with out sex... Viagra no longer works and when it does he complains of the side effects which is TOTALLY a turn off for me! I am embarrassed to use vibrators around him because I do know that he feels horrible..what is worse is that we want children... can u imagine how difficult it is going to be for us? We have tried for 3 years I wish you luck in your journey with this...View Thread