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The pain of the harsh words and actions and self isolation of my spouse has been so difficult but now knowing it is an illness helps, but much healing needs to take place but not until the right med/dose is in order. So I live my life not a part of my spouses as I and my family are the root of the anger. So hard as we my spouse treat others so nice, and share stories, and have discussions and go out with work people, but then comes home and does zero to take part and share what is going on in their life let alone care about what is going on in ours. That is the really hurtful part that it looks like the spouse cares more about others and work people more than the family. So sad, and so very difficult, and tired of the anger being directed at us and the rage at me, but that is the illness. Praying for the right meds and dose so the healing can begin.View Thread

Thanks so much for support here!View Thread

I can really relate to your frustrations. Yes, the OCD thing can change, although I have not seen the one you are talking about - ours is the opposite! There is hardly any sex. It is all really sad, especially when they don't see how it affects the ones they love. I am living through a "rage" stage right now, and he said to "leave him alone" and has not spoken to me for days. HIt is like the sight of me make him sick. It is so sad....I pray he comes around with the correct meds. He thinks he is totally fine. In sickness and in health - right? It is so hard....
I will keep you and others like us in my prayers.
Peace to you!View Thread
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