Nothing is wrong with you. Sounds like your still hurting from you ex and your horny. You don't want the ties because they hurt. It gets better. As for a "wham bam, thank ya mam" type of sex, you can find it. Remember it won't fix anything, but release sexual tension for a little time. If you need layed that bad, take problem in hand and stroke it. Self satifaction isn't a relationship involved, but it will take the edge off.
Not offensive. It's good you put your info out there. I'm not bi, but I love a good bj. One of my old gf could have benefited from your advise. The only problem I see is if you get a little too much benzocaine in your mouth. You numb him and he dosen't get to enjoy it or you don't get to enjoy the feeling and taste. I did find if my partner had her tonsils removed, she could take it deeper. Less objects to touch in her throat to kick off the gag reflex. They have a lube called anal ease that uses benzocaine to numb the backdoor, but you have to have your partner use a condom. They loose sensation and don't get to enjoy the encounter. Keep putting the advise out there. Just because you like guy on guy sometimes doesn't mean others can't use the info.
I felt it happen a few times, but then I looked at her again. I was infatuated with others while I was with my current wife (as she was my gf). I kept what was greener. I had a woman rubbing all over me one night. I didn't go with her. I wanted her and she was very desireable. I was hot and horny for her for 2 months after. Then I found out the crap that made her look so "green." Under that hot and sexy face was a goofy witch. Yea, I wanted to show her I could rock her world for a while, now I wouldn't touch her. I seen what was underneath. She offered to suck start a Harley, but she had all kinds of room in her head for sex. Nothing else in there. Oral from her would be a "hot dog down a hallway." All air in her head.
Hi pjones4368. You got a lot of good advise from kat. Here are some of my suggestions: Start foreplayby taking him to the shower and clean all those "dirty" parts. It's suprising how many men like to have their hairy areas washed. Make sure he washes yours also. Exploring with your fingers can do wonders for you personal relations and hygiene. If you think providing oral is dirty, why just wash those thoughts away. You can't change him, but you can change how he looks at you. Make those small changes here and there. If your cooking the meals, get creative. Grill or bake stuff. Make the less fatty stuff. Don't buy snacks chips, soda and sweets. I never could understood going out in public and looking like crap. Unless you can afford better things than PJ bottoms to go the store, you should like you care about yourself. Everyone has a bad or slob day, but if your wanting to attract some sexual attention, you have to provide some attractant first.
As an old lab tech and had to tell patients about semen analysis, I can tell you what the lab procedures were in my time. No ejaculation for 72 hours prior to the test. This allows for an increase of volumn and sperm. Your body needs time to build up a reserve. If you notice when you ejaculate after a day or 2 with out ejaculation, you see an increase in amount. If you fire every 12 hours, say a morning wake up call and a afternoon delight, you'll have a smaller load on the 2nd round. Your body can't build the little fellows that fast. According to studies, your body builds them at a set pace and there may not be a way to increase the rate. As for the fellows in the adult entertainment service, I read an interview once. The fellows don't have sex for a few days before the money shot and they "edge" a lot during the shoots. They also finish in places where they can add a little more for the camera shot. How much is spit or icing? Can you tell?
Wow a lot of what your saying has happened to me. Dad was/is a drunk. Married 19 years to a woman who thought sex was a chore and she didn't like to do chores. I was 27 when I married, though not a virgin, but very naive about women's emotions. Sex isn't complicated, but sometimes enjoying it is. I'm 51 and the lead in the pencil isn't there sometimes. You feel like your letting your partner down because you can't finish in her.
Here are some suggestions that may help. First talk to her. Your having sex with this woman. You should be able to tell her that sometimes you can be excited, but not be able to finish. She should understand that. My wife has understood this from day one, because I talked to her.
Make sure she gets her's first. Just because you can't fire, doesn't mean she can't finish a couple of times. Let her know you get as much enjoyment out of making her happy as she does making you happy. I hope you enjoy giving oral, because Michelle will tell you, a woman usually doesn't hold off long and really enjoys it if you know what your doing.
If you have had self enjoyment to adult entertainment, then talk to her about doing what's on the screen. She doesn't have to watch it, but you can remember it. It's suprising what you can do with some strawberry syrup and whip cream.
Lastly, if you have to stroke the pony to complete it, involve her. Have her play catch. A waiting mouth is a really big turn on in my book. I have had days I'm so tired I couldn't think about climbing in the saddle, but I need a release to sleep. I can do it or my partner can help.
Now I have come to really enjoy my partner's help. Even if it's just opening her mouth and she gets the satifaction of doing something for me. Remember (I had to learn this thanks to my ex) women like sex as much as you do.
Michelle you got to be kidding. I always want a women perspective. As for the little girl sticking up, well that's the object of my affections. I also go by this standard. If I can't sing the song, I can always HUMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM. Enjoy all you can.
My wife will push me away after about 3 minutes, then I go back and she can only handle about 30 seconds. That's when I know she too tender to touch with the tongue. Remember guys, always give her the first couple of rounds. We usually only finish once, where she can enjoy for a while.
I'm a man who would like to comment on this subject. I love them. I love a woman's libia and clitoris. I've had a gf who could tie her libia and she was very sexually stimulate and wonderful to provide oral for. Not big on the piercings, but to each their own.