It's not your job to just lay there and play catch. He has to give you some prep work and some other things than the same old wham bam thank you mam. Obviously if he won't kiss your exposed lips, he hasn't kiss your hidden lips. A good french kiss on the right spot will make you "cum" and I could steal a lot of my old buddy's girls if they didn't kiss the flower. In the posting on this site, there is a couple of web sites noted for there teaching aspect for sex. Look through them and find those sites. It's not porn, it's actually educational. In a relationship there is alway 2 sides and 2 people involved. He may not know what to do. He's your first and you may be his first. Same position maybe all he knows, but only he can learn it for himself. He should learn for you. If he doesn't, it's what you have to live with.
Oh I know it would be a perfect world if our parents knew about sex. Unfortunately you are right. I can tell you my son has been told about all your talking about to a certain extent. He's 17 now and a whole lot worldly about sex than I was at 17. I take pride in the fact that I talk to my son about sex with a woman. Toys he'll have to discuss with his partner. Each woman is different. I have told him this. I have told he how to provide oral sex and anal sex for a woman. Of course, I know I'm not the norm. I wish our American schools provide your education standards now. Thanks to our Puritian & our "we can't offend anyone" attitudes, American's will never be open to this kind of education. I was in London in 1985. OMG did I get and education and truly fell in love with Fishnet stockings and the "English accent". That was the rave then and it still brings back very fond memories. All in all, I still think it the parents job to educate their children. Some really need to prepare before they have any and a lot shouldn't have them at all.
Sex should be explained by the parent(s). Dads should talk to there sons and Mothers to there daughters. If only one parent, then it's still that parent's responsiblity to teach their children of either sex.
My father's idea was to tell me to just put it in and finish. It was wrong, but it was his way. I got more from my mother. What I learned in school from my peers was a lot of crap, because they didn't know either. School can teach you the clinical name of parts and the STD's.
It's a community that raises a child. It's good parents who should be the ones on the front line in the childs sexual education. For good or bad, the child will be like the parent. So hopefully the parent is smart enough to educate themselves before they try to educate the child. Sex education is one of the many responsibilites of parents. Not the schools, because why would a parent want a stranger teaching their child something so personal.
We are not here to criticize and we want to help. Steve is right. Find a doctor or therapist who deals in sexual problems. On this site you will find a lot of infomation about you problem. There are suggestions if you look at the other postings from earlier. Don't forget to talk to your husband. Nothing is worse if your not in the mood and he doesn't know why. Open communications is vital to a healthy relationship. That's how you keep your marriage. Let him know what's going on. Men are fixers. We want to help.
No she's not cheating. I agree with the Michelle & Nowhard. Her body is changing every day. Even 3 1/2 months later. Appreciate and love your family and stop worring. She gave you a child and her love. Don't screw it up. Take some time off and show her your love. Help her take care of your child. Turn the TV off, get off your butt, and help take care of your family. Thoughts like "is she cheating" after having your baby will destroy your relationship. I'm not trying to nag at you, but those are the wrong thoughts.
As a C-Pap user, I can tell you it doesn't cause ED. It helped me be more alert and able to not just hit the bed and pass out. If I had a decrease in function, it was from my weight, my years of smoking (quit after 20 years), or my lack of exercise. All of these are the reasons I have a C-Pap. I will always need the machine, but I'm losing weight and have quit smoking.
As Michelle and all the other folks that have posted, You have to decide. If I'm marrying a woman, I have to have 3 parts of a relationship to say "I do." 1) Love. Do you LOVE her? 2) Respect: Do you Respect her? 3) Trust: Do you Trust her?
If you don't have these 3 basic relationship items then you don't have a good relationship. PERIOD.
Until these are all answered yes, You decide how you want to live. I can tell you if you don't have these 3, you will be miserable.
By the way, how her vagina looks doesn't mean much, unless she just got up from him. It will look like when you get done with it then. Do you look after your done? I know I don't.
I would check with my gyn dr, but I think it's just your period starting early. You stated you missed a pill and sometimes that can trigger an early period. It's light due to your body is in flux from the missed hormones. Stay on your pill cycle and talk to your doctor.
Your man sounds like it's all about him and your just there to give him what he wants. What's good for the gander is good for the goose. He needs to man up and give you some loving. Tell him to give you what you need. He needs to know he has to give you some before you kiss and make it better.