Medication is not an exact science. If your still having a discharge, you need to get back to your doctor. If you don't think that doctor is helping, find another. You doctor can not help you if you don't ask for it. Don't be embarrassed by an infection. Anyone can get them one and it will only get worse if you don't do anything about it. Go see your doctor.
Your a 21 year old male looking at a picture of a 28 year old woman's untrimmed bush. Your suppost to get aroused. Get over it. If you have a gf, have her stop trimming it up. You need to stop looking at her pictures and start looking more at your gf. Think of her as your buddy's gf/wife. Would you try to get between your buddy and his partner? This is your father's wife.
These lusty feelings will pass, just give them time. I've looked at my gf's daughter (she's 28) and have seen, by accident, her body parts. I get excited when I see young women's body parts. I just put those thoughts away. I want my relationship with my gf more. I'm sure you want your relationship with your father more than you want sex with his wife. It's like quitting smoking. Look at all the negative affects it has if you continue on that path of lust and sex. There is no good outcome.
Instead, congrads to your dad. New baby and married to a woman almost half his age. The baby is your sibling. Do you want to have sex with your brother/sister's mom? YUCK.
Glad to help. Remember, nothing is hopeless until all options are played out. Just let us know how it works out for you. I hope you and your husband get as close to the point of teenagers as you can get. I really hope you can get to enjoy sex again. We can enjoy a lot of things, but sex it the greatest pleasure we can share with our partners.
Don't be intimidated and I'm glad at 15, you still haven't had sex. No matter what the reason. You need to wait, enjoy life, get an education and a life before you have sex. I'm not saying wait forever, but live a litte.
As for your problem, unless it's caused by something abnormal (example infection or trauma), your normal. A woman's vaginal lips are like rose petals. They open up so the man can enjoy the sweet nectar of a woman love. There is no hetersexual man out there who would think anything different.
Your 15, so I'm not going into to much detail, but this man loves kissing large lips. I know they can be very sensitive to the touch and can be very sexually stimulating.
As for the pain & discomfort you feel when the lips are pinched in clothes, try a pantyliner. It wider that panties and provide some cushion. When you do have sex (not very soon I hope), make sure your moist and lubed up. You may even have to open yourself up for entry. Your partner should, but you may have to hold yourself open. If it's pulling and/or painful, stop and apply lube. Don't just let him hurt you.
By the way, to a heterosexual man, all vaginas are beautiful. Young men ususally don't look first and just want to dive in. Take your time and tell him to take his time. You'll both enjoy the experiance more.
I agree with fcl, If your not getting results with you doctor, find another. How often are you seeing your doctor? She may be able to help find a specialist who deals with your situation.
Please don't fake it for your husband. I know when/if my partner isn't in to it and It takes away from the specialness of love making. My ex use to just lay there sometimes, and she didn't understand what that did to me. Mercy sex is what it's called. I agree you want to have sex with your husband and from the sounds of it you can't have vaginal sex because of the pain.
Try other ways, which I know you have tried, but do the ones that won't hurt you and you still get to enjoy being with your husband. Bill Clinton was wrong, Oral is still sex. Don't be hurt with loving you man. He will like it better, if he knows he's not hurting you.
Hi cat. A lot of the girls in those places won't typically go after the only woman in the group. Like Dennis said, you got to flash some cash. It also could have been a real dive (a lot are) and the girls were only going to where they could see the big tips. I was in one once. where the woman on stage from the neck down looked like a 25 year old. Neck up in her 60's. I left after the 6 month pregnant girl got up next.
Plus they might be afraid you might react badly if they touched your man. I know my ex and gf would react very badly if a woman rubbed her breast on me. The also know it would be very hard for me not to touch back. You did say a porn video for $20.
Good Luck next time and remember FLASH SOME CASHView Thread
Tell your bf to stop blaming himself. An UTI can be caused by a lot of things, not just oral sex. If that was the case, we, as human beings, would have constant UTI's. If the hospital diagnosed you with an UTI, then they did a culture to ensure the correct drugs to use. If your bf is still having difficulty breathing, he needs to be seen for it. To may factors are involved to even start to say it was the oral sex. After the treatments, go back to normal. I'm sure you and he are both enjoying oral. I know I & my gf do.
I am not judging you for wanting what you want to do to yourself. I am upset you took a woman who loves you as a man and withheld a major secret when you married her. Now you want her to accept you. You just rejected her as a sexual partner and confidant.
If you knew you wanted to be a woman or gay, why did you put her through that pain. She was looking to live the rest of her life with the MAN she married. I'm sure you cross dressed and made youself look like a woman, I'm sure she accepted that because she loves you. She may have helped you in some of your fantasies. Then you drop a bomb that you want to cut off your penis and become a woman. If she stays with you and accepts you, I will be surpised.
I will forever emotional support whatever a person wants to do to themselves, short of hurting themselves, I would/will never support someone hurting or lying to there spouse or another person. I don't judge you for what you want, I don't respect your actions to your wife, lover, and friend.
Hi Gail, that's why I said "science believes" and she may have lost. I know each woman and surgery is different. I haven't had relations with a woman who has the surgery. When I was doing my clinical rotations, the GYN doctor told this to the women who had the surgery. He knew more about it than I did and he was a really good teacher.
I do know hormone treatment is one of the ways to increase sexual drive, keep sex traits from decreasing, and has some difficult side effects. I hope she will be back to her old self again sexually very soon with no side effects.