II have been dating this girl for awhile now and we talked good , healthy sexual activity , the whole 9 yards ..... not to mention she is in the military and I respect her for that ! but lately since she went back to Arizona where she live and has a house on base , She hasn't barely talked to me ... she'll still say she loves me and misses me but she wont answer my questions .... now what I did forget to mention is she has a ex husband that lives on base ..... my heart is getting shattered by this treatment but her excuse is they have her working all kinds of hours .... she will turn her phone off on me last night we had a continual texting conversation but it doesn't feel rite I do love her with everything I have got ... treat her like a queen ! I have even sold my own belonging so she could have smokes and so I could take her out to eat ! I'm consistently worried about her anymore ... my trust for her is going away ..... and im getting scared because im supposed to be going to Arizona from Ohio , FROM MY FAMILY ... im just getting back on my feet and I do not know what to do I need straight honest facts! Please I need to know idc for advise but need facts also how can I tell if she has cheated on me ik the "vagina" after use has a dysfunctional smell but that is in theory ! ik there is a way to notice if the vagina has been used masturbating or if it has been used by a different person. PLEASE HELP ... cuz she is picking me up at any time next week ! and im getting scared!View Thread
hey what you need to do is talk to him about it honesty is the only way to go and the only way to change anything ! A relationship is hard always will be hard you have to overcome the humps of life with your partner ! if you 2 have trust then why be mad .... before you look at your boyfriend you should look at yourself in the mirror and see if you act childish , or if you act a certain way to make him act childish im 20 and im with a 19 year old believe me its freakin hard ! and I have my childish ways sometimes me and her have our arguments ... but at the end of the day we still say "I love you" both sides have too relate and compromise with each other to have a healthy relationship .... A relationship that grows strong is a honest relationship and how is he supposed to change if you don't talk to it about it and put that conversation on pressure . naturally males need sex it boosts our ego and helps our day to day life ! he hasn't cheated on you ! he hasn't possibly make you feel horrible idk that for a fact but yea ...... relationships are hard and always will be hard but it goes a long way with blunt honesty no sugar coating just truth .View Thread
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