well writen but whoa!giving in for his sake?what about hers?she is to give in ?what happenned to him making her want him.like buying flowers doing something romantic for her,people marriage is an obligation,Carrol should not be judged as immature for putting her feelings on here,there is a reason for it>they are just asymptomatic of the whole problem.She may need to learn how to open up and be more sexual or he may need to be more communicative as well.View Thread
dear woman you need a real lover>who actually makes you orgasm through the roof someday.>there is nothing wrong with you,its just the lovers you have had up to now,werent any good. i sense you may need to open up more and tell your lover what you like.read some books and find out all your erogenous zones>sex is a beautiful spiritual thing<with the right person> dontcave either to any mans anger put him in his place.A man who truly loves you will not be mean for you refusing once in a while.A true man will make you want him by turning you on.Dont be shy,read up on this. you deserve the best,and insist on it>
cannot believe how narrowly you have responded>again the reason most women dont enjoy sex with their husbands after a while is because they dont give enough foreplay 20 minutes minimum is necessary at least before penetration> it should not be a duty ever to any wife,it should be a desire to her>omg too many men have your attitude.Its called making love not a duty and builds your intimacy as a couple when you BOTH enjoy it.My boyfriend is amazing in this category<and cares and asks me what i want and i tell him.that is why it works.When sex is a Duty<it is not enjoyable.And contributes to much resentment and detachment emotionally from eachother.Wake up anon cuz if you ever get married with that attitude lol your wife will be very unhappy>View Thread
k, dear girl, i was once in your shoes. i was married o a man who was not interested in any kind of foreplay or affection during or before sex.i didnt feel comfortable telling him either at that time> be inquisitive and research ways for it to be enjoyable for you. oral is one. whip cream, ...anyways he should pay attention to what heightens your orgasm. over 60 percent of all married women find sex to be a chore because a)foreplay isnt given for at least 20 minutes before penetration.Demand satisfaction gently by telling him what to do, as he should care as to your satisfaction as well. HE SHOULD HIT EROGENOUS ZONES ON YOU MANY TIMES TO GET YOU WANTING HIM(Kissing your neck, massaging you caressing you)all women hate wham bam thank you maam and if your married to it ,change it. You deserve enjoyment and this can happen.Your enjoyment counts and you must talk about it with him and coach him>this is important>men need direction>Good luck.View Thread
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