The short answer: be a gentleman; ladies first. Going to the doctor is fine I suppose, but this isn't necessarily a medical issue, its the difference between men and women. Men usually orgasm much more easily.
There are a variety of reasons for this, but if you look at where her clitoris is located, it doesn't necessarily get all that much attention. How soon would you orgasm if nothing ever touched your penis?
The easiest answer is to find ways to please her first, or to arouse her to the point where you can orgasm roughly together. Most women don't reach climax from intercourse alone. My suggestion is to learn to go down on her, and either bring her to orgasm, or to the point where she is aroused enough that your penetration will put her over the line fairly quickly. You could use your fingers as well, but going down is more intimate. 95% of women love it, and the other 5% are lying View Thread