I meet my boyfriend a year ago.first time i meet him i already noticed that he acts like a gay, but i dont want to think about it because his been marriage for 23 yrs before he got divorced.I meet all his family...few months ago he decided to moved me and live together in his house.But im not home all the time, i only come home 3 x a week becuase of my job.we been a happy couple for more than a year, until lately sometimes he didnt call me for 2 consecutive nights in which he used to do that everyday since i meet him, he told me some excuses why he didnt call me, which i did try to understand him,but when i come home the next day i found out 2 condoms (used) form our waste basket inside of our bedroom.I asked him regarding that but he doesnt want to say anything.so I respect him for not telling me but it makes curious of course and suspicious.One day he asked me to download something to his iphone, and i accidentaly open the txt messaging which is already open,(maybe he forgot to closed that txt.) and i was surprised for what I read..he send txt to somebody that his inviting him for 3some and the guy answered him yes his interested for 3some, and he wants to know my boyfriend screen name from the site were they meet.....So what I did, i joined that site( Adam4adam) and look for my boyfriends screen name and I was shock because i saw my boyfriend profile and picture....Now i keep asking him about the 2 condoms that i saw from our bedroom but since his going out of town he told me that his gonna tell me when he comes back.he keep telling me that he love me.......
I love him so much and he is a nice guy, he is a cring person and i am happy to be with him but i cant accept that his having an affair to a men and to a group sex maybe...please help me to decide if what im gonna do, please share your opinion regarding this situation.View Thread
You know its hurts me a lot, but i think this is part of my life, but now i realized that this is wrong,The reason why i didnt talk to him about the text messages and the gay site, do you think his gonna admit that? and its my fault, i should not read his text messages.And besides i dont like fighting at all.Thats why I shared this problem and get some advice,than fighting, besides before he left I already told him that i have to let him go, and i already decided especially now I got some second thought from you guys.View Thread
Thank you for your opinion, the reason why i didint force him to tell me the truth because his leaving for a one month travel and he told me that he doesnt want to have any problem between me and him so he wants to tell me as soon as he comes back nxt month.And this I respect his decision.View Thread