I'm in my mid 30's, active, healthy, eat well and in a great relationship with a hot attractive girl for the past 10 months. I don't smoke, I exercise, I indulge in a few drinks per week, but nothing excessive.
About a year ago I was dating this girl and I couldn't get hard once. That relationship ended because we weren't meant to be. Sex had nothing to do with it.
Sex has been great until recently. She came on to me and no matter what she did I couldn't get hard. This has happened 4 times in a month. I don't get morning erections and even alone I can barely get a hard erection. I was rock hard and super sensitive my whole life. Sometimes too sensitive which would lead to PE, but when PE took place I could go for round two in 10 minutes. Haven't looked at porn in months. I don't want to master-bate (want to save it for her and I don't get super hard).
She thinks it's her and this is putting a toll on our relationship.
Regarding these issues....
To little sleep.-----at times
performance anxiety.---recently for sure. Especially since I'm hyper sensitive at times and I might go quick. Other times it goes on forever. Never sure why.
High cholesterol.----just got tested for it
Diabetes.---just got tested for it
Alcohol.---3-6 drinks per week
Stress.---maybe a bit regarding the current relationship sex issues
Anxiety.----related with sex
Self image.-----I'm a tad overweight(10lbs). I'm fairly fit. More fit than the majority of guys my age.
Low libido.----still want sex and I'm interested in it
Your general health.---trying to figure it out.
Thanks for your time. I'm bothered by this because it doesn't add up. I'm concerned it is an underlying health issue. I haven't had morning erections in months. However this morning I got a full one.
Weird. I think diet might be contributing. Or I'm just mental.View Thread
I tried Cialis cut down on Thursday (about 5mg). On Wednesday and Thursday I ate red meat for the first time in along time. I'm getting chub now at random times even. With Cialis I was rock hard. yesterday not so much. However just moments ago I got a random erection (about 60%).
Anyone got ideas or knowledge?
I'm seeing the doctor next week for a full check up.View Thread