I'm 80 and haven't had intercourse with my wife for several years because of her medical problems. I must depend on her hand and mine but I have found it increasingly difficult to achieve orgasm and ejaculation unless I look at Internet porn; however, I would prefer not to do that. Cialis helped to provide more and better erections but the orgasm problem remains. Any suggestions?View Thread
Any man who thinks forcing a woman to have sex will improve his sex life is terribly misinformed. The fact that he wants sex so frequently and even masturbates daily in the shower indicates that he may have a genuine sexual addiction problem that needs to be treated by a professional therapist.
Orgasms are great and I sometimes wish we could just press a button anytime to have one but then I don't think they would continue to be so pleasant if we had that ability. Your husband certainly can't expect you to feel the same way he does. One thing not mentioned in your post is whether you enjoy having sex with him? Do you have one or more orgasms with him or does he simply and selfishly think of himself during sexual activity with you? If you don't climax at least once while having sex with him, he may have to go out of his way to make sure you do. He may have to slow down or manipulate you with his finger during intercourse until you do have an orgasm. Then he will enjoy his orgasm even more if he really loves you. I know this from experience. You can also join him in the shower and help him with his masturbation if he learns to please you during regular sex. It will indicate that you want to enjoy sex with him regardless of how it's done. If these things don't help, try to get him to visit a therapist soon before it affects your marriage.View Thread
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