Your husband's semen comes out because that's what it's supposed to do and that's exactly what happens to everyone. It's not supposed to stay inside you. It only takes one single sperm to make a baby and there are millions in one ejaculate.
How long have you been trying? If it's been over a year then you (and your husbnad) need to see your doctor to find out why. Most doctors won't see you until you've been trying for a year.View Thread
Neither of you are ready for sex because if you were you would have no trouble whatsoever in finding how to "ask" each other... Don't rush it. There's no hurry. If you can't talk about sex yet then you really aren't ready to actually do it.View Thread