If it hasn't been that long since the encounter, there's no way to tell just yet. I might be too soon for a test to come up positive even if you do have it. You might just have to put on your big birl britches and confess.View Thread
Yes, a guy can want oral sex and not want sex with his spouse. It's similar to men who masturbate rather than have sex. Oral sex/masturbation is easier because they only have to focus on them while with sex, they have to worry about someone else (or at least they should).
If your husband cares about you, he should at least make an effort for you.View Thread