I don't agree with the once a cheater, always a cheater belief. There is a regular poster on WebMD who cheated on an ex-BF because he was abusive and controlling. She knows it wasn't right and is currently with someone she has not cheated on because it's a healthy relationship.View Thread
However, for a lot of people, oral and snuggling won't do it for the long term. A lot of people need the closeness of sex and won't go without it for an extended period of time. My DH is one of those people. I'll perform oral sex and he enjoys it but has said while he enjoys the oral sex, he prefers regular sex.View Thread
It's also the result of parents thinking that's something parents should teach their kids and then not doing it. It's a result of parents thinking if they don't tell their kids about sex, they won't have it.
MInd you, my parents never talked to me about sex but I knew where babies came from thanks to an old book called "Where Did I Come From?" They also had books on the bookshelf and since I love to read, I just read them.View Thread