Hello, I know what your going through and what your partner is going through. Ive been on both ends of this. Im Bipolar and my meds. ruined my sex drive. I ended up hating sex. It felt like a hated chore. Me and my husband hadnt been married very long and my hubby had to ask me for sex. I really felt bad for him. Then about 5 yrs later my sex drive went into over time. It was crazy. I wanted sex three times a day and my poor hubby couldnt keep up with me. We got into arguments. I was accusing him of having affairs and not wanting to have sex with me. The truth was, he just COULDNT have sex. The entire thing was Hell. Finally my sex drive straightened out and our lives were so much happier.
So here are some ideas to perhaps help both of you. First, get two magnets for your fridge, one that represents you and the other that represents your hubby. We used a blue and pink rabbits. We would raise the rabbits higher or lower on the fridge according to our sex drive, when it got close to being equal, then sex would happen. So there would be no question as to WHEN you could have sex. Also, try watching porn together. Find what turns him on and buy that kind of porn. You could play sex games. The one that my husband LOVES to play is when I dress up as a 18 yr old Catholic virgin who has escaped from Catholic school. Im 48 yrs old and we have been playing that game for many many years. So buy some costumes and see if he likes them. Even try some kinky stuff. Go to a sex toy/costume/video store and get some ideas from there. The sky is the limit.
Hello Ladies, I have created a support group for those of you who suffer from Lichen Vulva. I felt that it was important to have a support group for those of us who suffer. Women who have Lichen need a place that they can go to for support, for information, so that we can talk about our daily struggles, so that we can tell our stories, so we can get help and help others.
Please join my support group. Together we can help each other get through this.
Hello Dr. Jane, I have a few questions that I am hoping you can answer for me. For a while now my Gyno has diagnosed me with Lichen Simplex Vulva. I have a great deal of pain. I was googling Lichen Simplex today and it said something about having Oxalate crystals in urine. Can you tell me what are the symptoms of having Oxalate crystals in urine?
For the longest time I have had an orange colored urine, it has a strong smell and also burns the outside of the skin area where my Lichen Simplex Vulva is. Does this sound like I have Oxalate crystals in my urine? Is this some symptoms?