What!?! The OP is a girl, she can do hand jobs galore and still be interested in intercourse. Why would it not be good for her health? How in the world could giving hand jobs be 'not good for her health'? What are the risks you speak of?View Thread
I watch porn with ladies, who said I didn't like to?
By me staing that they are prosititutes, which is technically what they are (they have sex for money), doesn't mean that I don't enjoy watching some porn. Now ATM porn or porn where the girls are treated no better than a blow-up doll I have issues with, as it glorifies and promotes unhealthy sex and expectations for the men who watch it and want to emulate that in real life.View Thread
I see you bending over backwards for this guy and he seems to be using it to his advantage. So you please him sexually but he refues to finger you or give you want you need? Time to move on. Dating is about finding the right one for you, not trying to change a man to be what you want him to be...it will never happen and you will be miserable. He's showing you his red flags, now pay attention to them! Why would you want to be with someone who puts you down in front of other people, and uses you for sex? Him continuing to 'joke' in a hurtful way after you've mentioned it to him, is another clear sign he has no respect for you!View Thread