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How long did it take most of you to return to normal??? And whats good for detoxing to remove the metals from the body?View Thread
As for doing the deed with your guy. My guy didn't remember that I was virgin (I found out much later, even though I had told him) but he was really tender with me because that's just how he is. We went to third base several times for 2 months before having intercourse so I could get used to being with someone, being naked with someone, being with him, getting used to what he likes, and him getting used to (figuring out) what I like. When we finally did it, it was me on top to control the penetration, but it was really all him.
I grew up in a church that told me to wait until marriage, and while I did not wait until marriage, I did wait until the one. I didn't know he was the one at the time (that came later), but I'd had other opportunities that didn't pan out, but everything just fell into place with him. He is the most caring, considerate, understanding, FUNNY man I know. We complement each other so well.
I said all of that to say this: if its meant to be, it will happen. You are right to protect yourself. Find a method you can deal with. The shots don't hurt if the person knows what they're doing. But when it comes to having sex, when you're ready you'll know. And if the guy is the right guy, he'll wait as long as he has to. If he doesn't, it was the time or the guy and you just have to wait. I was 27 when I had sex with the best guy friend I ever had and now almost a year and a half later we're still together, talking about a future.
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Please try to see it as a replacement for the sexual excitement of youth. Men are hunters, observing sexual "prey" online is harmless fun with no victim. You can argue about the sexual politics of pornography, but it is hard to argue that it is not readily available and filled with willing participants!
Change is the Only Law of the Universe. This activity is just change- and it is not finished changing. 20 years from now it will be almost unrecognizable. Medicine may make this need easily solvable in the future, until then, please relax...View Thread
im going to planned parenthood in the morning... im done being so stupidView Thread
From past 5 years, iam getting pain in left testicle,pain and burning sensation at the tip of the penis and pain from left testicle to left leg foot.Pain in left testicle increases after ejaculation.Kindly help me to find a right treatment and right doctor.
I have gone for all tests like abdomen ultrasound scan,scortal doppler study,HIV,w.b.c count,v.d.r.l,Hbs Ag,RBS,S.Creatinine,Albumin,Sugar,Epithilial cells,P.S.A. all tests results came normal.
Iam going to get marry in this month.My worry is that my disease will transmit to my wife.Before my marriage i want to get cured.
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Having multiple sexual partners or extramarital affairs.
Read more....
http://sexandlove360ezine.blogspot.com/2011/08/signs-and-symptoms-of-compulsive-sexual.htmlView Thread
Trust me it feels really good before i masturbate. I get an erection fast
and i am more satisfied. Ladies does this work for you?View Thread
I well recall our first honeymoon night when I entered her at least three times and had great orgasms. There was no difficulty or bleeding and I didn't notice anything when I penetrated her hymen.
Being a virgin, this was the greatest experience of my life and I was glad we both waited until we were married to have sex. Prior to that, I did some rather heavy petting to her but she never touched me sexually.
What I didn't know, until some time later, was how to give my wife an orgasm. She always seemed to enjoy the sexual act but I knew she didn't ever climax. I continued to enjoy sex without her coming until I read an article about manual stimulation. I then realized that my relatively small penis and the location of her clitoris would result in the two never meeting.
When I learned about how to find the clitoris and stimulate it with my fingers, things changed considerably. As many have indicated in their posts, it's important to have the woman reach an orgasm first so after five or ten minutes of thrusting which I enjoyed, I rubbed her clitoris and made sure she came before I finished. Watching her enjoying the climax excited me more so I could come and ejaculate soon after her orgasm.
We used this method to allow us to have sex lasting anywhere from a few minutes to a half hour or so. The length of the act depended on when she had her orgasm followed by mine which, in turn, depended on when I stimulated her clitoris.
As the years went by, sex was good although I always was the one who initiated it but she never refused. We had four daughters and now we have four grandchildren
My wife sufffers from COPD (Chronic Obstructive Pulmonary Disease) that began when she was a child. Several years ago, when she was in her late 70's, she stopped having sex because she experiences severe shortness of breath following an orgasm. That symptom can be very alarming to people with COPD so I can understand her reason for refusing to have sex anymore. She also believes that when people reach the age of 70 or 80, they don't need to have sex. I told her that, for a man, this isn't always the case and that I needed to have some sex regardless of my age which is now 80.
Fortunately, she's willing to masturbate me or allow me to masturbate myself in her presence. I find this activity very pleasing but I rarely have an orgasm. In addition, I've had some arthritis problems that preclude my having sex in the missionary position that we usually used. I hope to convince my wife to try some other positions and let me enjoy a full sex act without her reaching an orgasm. This might sound unfair but I don't know what else to do except for the manual stimulation she provides me. She never would perform oral sex on me but I frequently did so on her during foreplay.
Most of those posting here may be much younger than my wife and I and I thought it would be interesting and useful to post our experiences as virgins when we married and now when we have grown older (I said "older", not "old")
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