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I found with a lot of focus and viagra/cilalis etc. I was able to get an erection, and after I would arouse myself I can then have sex with my present wife. Still needed to focus PLUS tweak the nips in order to ejaculate. I'm happy. Low T might be an issue. I know mine is low and I have to leave it there cause of prostate cancer. I've also added an extra 50lbs. guess where? in the gut. That doesn't help either. Used Paxil for a time and it stopped ejaculation cause of SSRI's. As you can see there can be a # of factors. Age @ 65 doesn't seem to be an issue. Keep trying things and good luck.View Thread
on the day i know i'm going to get some i load up on half a stalk of celery and in the morning take one ogoplex pill. again on the day i know i'm going to get some i take a second dose of ogoplex in the afternoon. something else i take is ejaculoid. i take that 30mins prior to getting some. one time i didn't think i was going to stop. my wife never lets me cum on her face. it was my b'day so she let me. afterwards she said she had to move because she was drowning in it. because she moved her head i didn't get the full load out.. i still had about 3 more loads that were lost cuz of it.View Thread
How long did it take most of you to return to normal??? And whats good for detoxing to remove the metals from the body?View Thread
As for doing the deed with your guy. My guy didn't remember that I was virgin (I found out much later, even though I had told him) but he was really tender with me because that's just how he is. We went to third base several times for 2 months before having intercourse so I could get used to being with someone, being naked with someone, being with him, getting used to what he likes, and him getting used to (figuring out) what I like. When we finally did it, it was me on top to control the penetration, but it was really all him.
I grew up in a church that told me to wait until marriage, and while I did not wait until marriage, I did wait until the one. I didn't know he was the one at the time (that came later), but I'd had other opportunities that didn't pan out, but everything just fell into place with him. He is the most caring, considerate, understanding, FUNNY man I know. We complement each other so well.
I said all of that to say this: if its meant to be, it will happen. You are right to protect yourself. Find a method you can deal with. The shots don't hurt if the person knows what they're doing. But when it comes to having sex, when you're ready you'll know. And if the guy is the right guy, he'll wait as long as he has to. If he doesn't, it was the time or the guy and you just have to wait. I was 27 when I had sex with the best guy friend I ever had and now almost a year and a half later we're still together, talking about a future.
I hope this helps.View Thread
Please try to see it as a replacement for the sexual excitement of youth. Men are hunters, observing sexual "prey" online is harmless fun with no victim. You can argue about the sexual politics of pornography, but it is hard to argue that it is not readily available and filled with willing participants!
Change is the Only Law of the Universe. This activity is just change- and it is not finished changing. 20 years from now it will be almost unrecognizable. Medicine may make this need easily solvable in the future, until then, please relax...View Thread
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