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SO ASHAMED..WORRIED FOR MY BABY..STD?

after my 3yr relationship didnt work out i became way too sexually active and ive had unprotected sex with 5...

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Kindly Help me to find out the right doctor

Dear Sir/Madam From past 5 years, iam getting pain in left testicle,pain and burning sensation at the tip of...

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Bump on Penis need help

I've had kinda a tiny tiny little cyst on the shaft of my penis looks just like a zit, similar to kinda the...

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My reply from my posting

Yes kcl i have went to the doct all they gave me was stool softner when i explained enema .so the meds didnt...

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it's not okay to hav sez on the first date

it's not okay to have sex on the first because she migth worry that she won't hear from him again or...

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Difficulty having an orgasm?

Try reading Becoming Orgasmic: A Sexual and Personal Growth Program for Women by Julia Heiman ,...

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Signs and symptoms of compulsive sexual behavior

Having multiple sexual partners or extramarital affairs. Read more.... ...

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a tip for pleasure

Does anyone rub their nipples with their fingernails and some lotion? Trust me it feels really good before i...

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Baby Oil for sexual lubrication

I wanted to know if using baby oil for sex lube can cause infection?

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Experience from two virgins

My wife and I both were virgins when we married over 50 years ago when we were in our late 20s. Neither...

Posted by bobbinlanikai

My wife and I both were virgins when we married over 50 years ago when we were in our late 20s. Neither of us had any prior sexual experience. Prior to our marriage, my wife went to a doctor for a general examination and he did a procedure to her hymen to prevent pain or discomfort during our first intercourse.

I well recall our first honeymoon night when I entered her at least three times and had great orgasms. There was no difficulty or bleeding and I didn't notice anything when I penetrated her hymen.

Being a virgin, this was the greatest experience of my life and I was glad we both waited until we were married to have sex. Prior to that, I did some rather heavy petting to her but she never touched me sexually.

What I didn't know, until some time later, was how to give my wife an orgasm. She always seemed to enjoy the sexual act but I knew she didn't ever climax. I continued to enjoy sex without her coming until I read an article about manual stimulation. I then realized that my relatively small penis and the location of her clitoris would result in the two never meeting.

When I learned about how to find the clitoris and stimulate it with my fingers, things changed considerably. As many have indicated in their posts, it's important to have the woman reach an orgasm first so after five or ten minutes of thrusting which I enjoyed, I rubbed her clitoris and made sure she came before I finished. Watching her enjoying the climax excited me more so I could come and ejaculate soon after her orgasm.

We used this method to allow us to have sex lasting anywhere from a few minutes to a half hour or so. The length of the act depended on when she had her orgasm followed by mine which, in turn, depended on when I stimulated her clitoris.

As the years went by, sex was good although I always was the one who initiated it but she never refused. We had four daughters and now we have four grandchildren

My wife sufffers from COPD (Chronic Obstructive Pulmonary Disease) that began when she was a child. Several years ago, when she was in her late 70's, she stopped having sex because she experiences severe shortness of breath following an orgasm. That symptom can be very alarming to people with COPD so I can understand her reason for refusing to have sex anymore. She also believes that when people reach the age of 70 or 80, they don't need to have sex. I told her that, for a man, this isn't always the case and that I needed to have some sex regardless of my age which is now 80.

Fortunately, she's willing to masturbate me or allow me to masturbate myself in her presence. I find this activity very pleasing but I rarely have an orgasm. In addition, I've had some arthritis problems that preclude my having sex in the missionary position that we usually used. I hope to convince my wife to try some other positions and let me enjoy a full sex act without her reaching an orgasm. This might sound unfair but I don't know what else to do except for the manual stimulation she provides me. She never would perform oral sex on me but I frequently did so on her during foreplay.

Most of those posting here may be much younger than my wife and I and I thought it would be interesting and useful to post our experiences as virgins when we married and now when we have grown older (I said "older", not "old")

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ImplaWrong!

I had my implanon in for a little over a year and just got it taken out yesterday because I was on my period...

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Love Your Body

My wife was 140 pounds when we got married 20 years ago. After 4 Beautiful daughters, my Angel wife has put...

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Can't wait to switch back to Yasmin!

I have been on Ocella for about 2 years now, and am so stupid to not realize it has been slowly ruining my...

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my wife dont like to give oral

how do i ask her so she dont get mad at me?but she will do it once a year for like five secs.

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wife can't go for periods

How are you doing guys? My wife gave birth to a cute baby boy in August 2010 and from that time to now April 2011...

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on no intress with sex

have no intress in sex with my husbeen is there something wrong with me?

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can fingering cause a delayed menstruation?

I am Jasmit, 22yrs.I am in a comitted reltionship from past 1 and half years.We have physical realtion but...

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How human touch affects a relationship

So many people ask what makes people want other people sexually. For instance you have an attraction of...

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female ejaculation........

For a woman to spill during love making, cos it mustn't really be sex but @least a good romance will help...

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Questions about emergency contraception ?

Check out the link from Princeton. http://ec.princeton.edu/ It has all you ever wanted to know...

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Sex Toys

Don't forget to wash and store your toys properly. Remember bacteria and yeast live in the vagina and...

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