Don't forget to wash and store your toys properly. Remember bacteria and yeast live in the vagina and bacteria lives in the anus so you want to make sure it is cleaned and stored properly. This reduces irritation and any spread of potential infection.
Most toys that are made for sex can be cleaned easily and safely with soap and warm water. The material also tends to be made to reduce or prohibit growth of bacteria and yeast.View Thread
FOR ALL THE PEOPLE TRYING TO FIGURE OUT YOUR LOSS OF SENSATIONS DURING ORGASM.( I HAD "O") ....I HAVE FINALLY FIGURED OUT THE PROBLEM...FOR PROBABLY MOST PEOPLE......I HAVE HAD THIS PROBLEM FOR OVER 15 YEARS....I FOUND A WEBSITE AFTER A LOT OF SEARCHING ...THAT CAME UP WITH THE ANSWER. IF YOU ARE TAKING A BETA-BLOCKER....ie. INDERAL...TOPROL.....THEY ARE CAUSING THE PROBLEM...MOST SITES SAY ED OR SEXUAL PROBLEMS...THEY DON'T MENTION LOSS OF ORGASM...I HAVE LOOKED ON THIS SITE AND MANY OTHERS WITH NO ANSWER TO THIS PROBLEM....TRUST ME I GOT THE FEELING BACK...MY LIFE BACK I'M 63. MAKE SURE YOU TALK TO YOUR DOCTOR TO SLOWLY REDUCE THIS MEDICATION...YOU SHOULDN'T JUST STOP....MAY CAUSE SEVERE HEART PROBLEMS...GOOD LUCK...LET ME KNOWView Thread
Thank you all for your tips and thoughts on the matter. I am happy to report that with a little patience, communication, creativity and some healing time, "things" are working out for the best. So once again thank you all for your time.View Thread
Take hold of his penis to control the depth of penetration without having your partner loss the sensation of being "covered". You can do this by using just a couple of fingers. He can do the same depending on the position.
You can also place a penile ring on him and to let him know that placing his penis past the ring is uncomfortably for you.
Also avoid positions where there is deep penetration that may result in discomfort.
Hello, I have a question.I had oral sex with an individual, Well i seem too be fine. Nothing about me has changed no sores or anything. Well about a few days ago my mouht has been dry and lips have been chapped, idk if i should worrie or couldnt it be that its a change in the weather going from warm tempts to colder temps. please someone give me adviceView Thread
Hi, Now, i am 24 year old. Through WebMD, i know the HPV vaccine is best given young woman as 9 to 26 years, and before sexual activity begins and before exposure to HPV. If i had sex with hand or mouth or use condom, so i can vaccinate HPV? Addition, if i had real sex not use condom, then a time i do vaccinate HPV. So, Is effect of HPV vaccine reduce? Could vaccinate HPV for middle-aged women, or pregnant women? If I have vaccinate HPV nose first, then i have pregnant, What should i do ?
Many people suffer with muscle aches and pains especially in the legs after sex due to muscle overuse or joint conditions. If you have this frequently, you may want to consider using special equipment or furniture that can help reduce strain or pain. Some helpful items could be inflatable pillows, soft wedges or supportive stretchable straps. Any of these can be found at any novelty store. The prices can vary from around $20 and up.View Thread
to a guy its another hole his member gets to explore.... for you it is the most uncomfortable feeling besides labor (for me)...
or is it....
use a water-based lube if using a condom.... if you cannot relax your muscles...talk to your partner about bringing in a toy (i prefer a vibrator.) and either you or him use it on you before and while performing anal...
the distraction will relax you plus the vibrator will do its job...and it turns out to be an amazing orgasm....View Thread
1. Condoms- don't forget they can come in flavors 2. You can cut a condom open and use it as a covering for oral sex with a female. 3. Plastic wrap found at your local grocery store can be used. It may help reduce risk as well.View Thread
He fits all of the signs and has recently admitted that he is a sex addict. We are working on finding a therapist in our area but I wanted to know if there is anything I can do as his wife to help him stay focused and help him be successful in this... He has admitted that he has a problem several times in the last year or so but has never been serious about getting help until now. This is our Last chance at saving this marriage!! I read about setting boundaries and creating a plan, I read those are important tools in recovery but I can't find an example or details as to what they should include. I'd like to have some kind of system in place ASAP. Does anyone know how this all works? Thanks in advance for any info!View Thread
You may have a condition called endimetriosis (sp). My ex wife had it and it can cause emotional problems as well as false positives on your pap smear. It is NOT cancer. The hypothalimous regulates sex hormone levels, for some reason , sometimes it starts sending signals that you need more. One doctor related it to a strobe light, normal is just blink blink blink. Abnormal is blinkblinkblink. It can be treated easily. Some women only have to be on medication a short time , others a moderate amount of time and still others may be on meds for the rest of their active sex lives. Please speak to your Doctor soon. This condition has ruined more than one marriage (relationship). If your Dr. isn't knowledgeable about this condition, find one who IS. Don't let them talk you into a histo,. Good LuckView Thread
My boyfriend wasn't really taking care of me in bed... if you know what I mean. And he wasn't upset about it and neither was I, I needed him to take care of me tho so I told him he needed some advice. He searched online and found an article that changed our lives for ever! Couldn't believe that one article could help as much as it did. If you are having problems in the bedroom I suggest you read this: http://www.sexicated.com/top-ten-mistakes-you-make-in-bed-you-may-not-know-about/ It's a really good article that is spot on with advice. Enjoy View Thread
You can use your fingers to stretch your vaginal orfice, while laying in a tub, then practice your kegels while doing so. You should start off with two fingers with lube, then try to work three together, to where they form like a triangle, then gyrate the base portion to gently stretch your muscle. Wow, and I wished I had a member like that. I had always been curious whether a woman really enjoyed, or wanted a monster member. I asked my wife, since she had been with guys bigger then me, she confided that she wasn't able to have a orgasm at all with a big one, but climaxes like crazy with my average penis, plus I tried different things with my penis. She is begging for it to a point it is annoying, I don't have to ask at all anymore. I just thought of this, try a over sized butt plug, that eventually will get you ready, just take as much as you can handle, and do it everyday.View Thread
Perhaps your wife could be helped with her decreased libido by having sex with an exciting and new partner. There is nothing more stimulating than a first kiss. I am sure you wouldn't mind if she explored her potential sexual re-explosion just as you are attempting.View Thread
Many people have trouble with the gag reflex (choking or coughing) when performing oral sex especially when they try to deep throat. You can try numbing sprays that are for sore throats. These are found over the counter. Although this is not a guarantee, this may help reduce some of the gagging. Remember the gag is a normal reflex so most people will never overcome completely (if at all) during oral sex. View Thread
Many people have questions about how to use lubricant for more comfortable, pleasurable sex. Here are some tips you might consider:
1. Choose the right lubricant for the right situation. Water-based lubricant and silicone-based lubricant are well suited for latex condoms (oil-based products, such as olive oil, oil-based lubricants or massage oil can cause latex condoms to tear). Silicone-based lubricants are better suited for sex play in the bath, shower or hot tub as water-based lubricants will wash away.
2. Apply the lubricant to your or your partner's fingertips for more careful application and less chance of spilling it onto the bed or floor.
3. Next, use your or your partner's fingers to apply the lubricant to the parts that need to 'fit together" well, such as around a woman's vaginal opening or on a man's penis. If you're using lubricant for sex toy play, consider applying some lubricant to the sex toy as well.
4. Water-based lubricant is easily absorbed into the body, so if sex goes on for some time, water-based lubricant may need to be re-applied. Small dabs of water can also help to re-activate the lubricant.
Condoms with benzocaine. This is similar to medicine the dentist use for numbing. It is at a lower dose and can cause decrease sensitivity that can help prolong erections. Don't worry. You will still be able to "feel". These tend to be marketed as extended performance or pleasure. If you are still not sure, your local pharmacist can help you.
Some people also try the oral numbing medication that is used for teething babies. They come flavored. You would just apply a bit around the head of the penis. The way it works is the same as the condoms but a slightly higher dose of numbing medication.
Your partner mouth will get numb if they come in contact with either of the above.
Soft/ silicone penile rings- if you have no vascular problems you can try these. You will have to get them at a novelty or adult store, or internet. It should not be tight to the point of any discomfort.
If you are in an abusive relationship and fear leaving or don't know how to handle the situation, you can call the National Domestic Violence Hotline. They can provide you with help, including a shelter where you (and your children) would be safe from harm. Their number is: 1-800-799-7233.View Thread
A lot of people have been concerned on what to do if they have sex and concerned of getting pregnant. There are two options.
1. The copper IUD You must contact physician right away to have it placed. Then can be keep in and used for long term contraception for up to 10 years. You must speak with your doctor to find out whether you are a good candidate for the IUD.
2.The "morning after pill" o Other names are Plan B ®, Plan B ®One-Step, and Next Choice ®. o Now available over the counter at your local pharmacy. (You may need to ask the pharmacist for it). § There may be restrictions like age (if you are under 17 you may need to speak with pharmacist or a physician). o Useful when § You think your contraception has failed § Condom breaks or slips § You didn't take birth control as directed § You didn't use birth control § When you were forced to have sex o It can reduce pregnancy by up to 75% (regular birth control pills are effective from 92-99%) § The sooner you take it the better it works. § Can be taken up to 3 days after sex o This is just the same medication found in birth control pills but at different doses. o Treatment may be with 1 or 2 pills o Some manufacturers even have coupons on their website.
- It is not a replacement for long term contraception
- It is does not stop a pregnancy that has already taken place. So it does not abort a current pregnancy.
- Does NOT prevent transmission of any sexually transmitted diseases
my husband and i have always enjoyed our sexual desire although i truly believe his more than mine as i cannot reach orgasim as often and that leads to only one of us getting satisfied, and makes it very aggrivating at times, my husband can reach orgasim in just seconds sometimes literally, that confuses me as he said when we first met he had not had sex in a very long time so i bought that for a while, but it has been 10 years and he still can reach his orgasim in less then 30 seconds and that is not stretching the truth, and it seems he just says o honey thank you i feel sellfish you did not get relieved, and just lays back and goes to sleep, the majority of the time being with out even a kiss until later he will say i did not get a kiss after sex,, i shake my head like wow you worry about that and i havnt had pleasure in months, wow is it something wrong with me or is it possible he just wants the sex quick so he can relieve him self and not worry about me caue i appual him or something, i am not fat not skinny i am thin but have a lot of stretch marks and a bit of left over flab on my belly, it is unatractive but can it really be that unattracted that this happens? I am so frusterated to the point i have contiplated an affair just for the sex although in honesty i have not, we fight about one thing he is sellfish with a lot of other things as well as a man he is terrific a great provider but to my feelings or needs just down right sucks..View Thread
I have been where you are....I was unhappy in my marriage and although I ended my marriage then ventured out (no regrets). I would recommend you examine your marriage and make a decision. The reason you are even contemplating cheating is because you are missing something from your marriage There is really no such thing as harmless cheating. Once you cross that border, everything changes. Your mind will be pre-occupied with your lover and things will never be the same. You should really consider your spouse and whether your marriage could survive such a breech of trust. If you don't love him anymore, then move on. But if you still love your spouse and are just looking for a little excitement...buyer beware. Once you cheat you cannot go back. Trust is broken, emotional turmoil will follow, someone will get hurt (usually the unsuspecting spouse). Please try and figure out what is lacking in your own marriage and try and fix it. Date nights can do wonders for a marriage. You may have to be the initiator to get the fire restarted but its worth it. Do you really want to lose what you have in your marriage over a cheap, meaningless fling? If the answer is yes...then I would recommend you examine your committment to marriage and if you are not in love anymore to your spouse then leave your marriage and be single. I was scared to be alone so I stayed in a unhappy marriage for 14 years. But once the desire to be happy in love was stronger than my need to not be alone I took the leap of faith and went for it. I met the man of my dreams and have been happily married now for 6 years. We celebrated our anniversary yesterday. Good luck to you, just remember there is no turning back...things will change forever once you cheat.View Thread
I have a guy i ve been dating 4 over one yr, since we started dating one problem i ve with him is good communication, i does not call me, he only call when he want, to me it seems he does not care that i exist, but all this will be a different case when am with him, when ever am around he gives me so much attention and all that, but when we are not 2gether its a different case. i have tried so much to talk to him about it but nothing seems to chang. pls should i leave my guy b/c he not call me often to no how i am faring or should i continue with the relationship. pls help me urgently. thanksView Thread
I normally do not post on the boards but when I came across this I just had to say something. Alot of people here are complaining of their partner not wanting to have or initiate sex. I recently came out of a spell like such. My fiancee was awe struck when his normally "horn dog" of a girlfiriend all of a sudden came to a screeching halt sexually. I was under alot of stress. we just bought a house, got a dog, my dad was diagnosed with a terrilbe disease, my friend got the cancer, quite frankly I was depressed. For a while I didnt even know why my sex drive was decreased. I just knew i wasnt in the mood and would even get upset when my man came to me trying to get me to, no matter how sweet or blunt he was about it. I was just so negative all the time and became emotionally "not there". Luckily I realised (after 6 or 7 months of this) that I was depressed and needed some help. I went to the Dr and started on some meds and after only a couple weeks I'm back to my old self again. I guess the point I"m trying to make is that for those of you who are the ones missin out on good lovin, give your partner some benifit of the doubt, it may simply be an emotional thing and lets face it- if its the man feeling this way he's even less likely to admit it and more likely to hide emotions. I never stopped being attracted to my man, I just couldnt stand the thought of being intimate with ANYONE cause I was so low. I wish you all the best!View Thread
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